Guys, Is it true that men don’t care about their friends kids?

[Anonymous]

My son’s dad said that men don’t care about other men’s kids. If they do, they are probably pedos.
Also, that men don’t talk about their kids to their friends.

I don't know if this is true or not. I don’t have make friends, nor am I around them often.

I really don’t care, but he is always tell me that my perception of how things typically go, isn’t reality. He’s said this so much, I can’t help but to wonder,

[Kaneki05]

One could say he's a Pedo just trying to hide that fact by pretending he don't care about other's kids and don't talk about his own.
Don't have much logic to those statements as that would just be assuming people are pedo's for no real reason.

He don't sound very smart tbh.

[Asker]

I didn’t think of it that way. And he’s not as smart as he think he is.

[genericname85]

i think there's people who like kids and people who don't like kids... and then there are pedos. i personally do not care about my friends kids. i will ask about them out of politeness but i really don't give a shit. but just cause someone does, i would not automatically assume they are a pedo.

[Asker]

Yeah, I feel like men aren’t going to care in the same way that women do. I do think it’s immature to assume they are automatically a pedo, too.

[genericname85]

there's men that do and i am sure not all of them are pedos. sure a sad minority of them will be pedos but i think it is very dangerous to assume that men who care for children are pedos. i mean i would care for my own children if i had any.

let me tell you this about my nighbour from childhood, a single dad who'se daughters i used to play with in the streets. i distinctly remember a day where i overheard a conversation between him and my mom. he was sobbing. he didn't know how to be a single dad. he knew he would have to bathe and wash his baby girls when his ex wife brought them over for the weekend... but he was so scared of them telling their mother that he touched them "down there" that he felt he couldn't even be a proper father to his very own children... that in my opinion is morbid fear of tiny minorities... and i think this is what that mindset you were talking about is leading to...

[genericname85]

so just to complete the story, my mom would wash and bathe these children. not because he was a pedo. but because he was so scared of someone labeling him that...

[Asker]

That was nice of her and I definitely understand his paranoia

[genericname85]

well i think we shouldn't create a society of paranoia just because of a few sick freaks.