I’m into this guy but he just wants to be friends. I really like him and being friends with a guy I have feelings for won’t work. So I let him know that if he wants to just be friends I want to ghost him. He goes completely insane when I tell him that.
Yes, guys can genuinely care about their female friends. It's important to recognize that just because someone wants to be friends, it doesn't necessarily mean that they don't care about you. It's possible that this guy simply isn't interested in a romantic relationship with you, but still values your friendship.
If you have feelings for him and can't see yourself being just friends, it's okay to communicate that and take some time to distance yourself from the friendship. However, ghosting him is not a respectful or mature approach. It's important to communicate your feelings and intentions clearly and respectfully, and give him the opportunity to respond.
If he goes "completely insane" when you tell him that you want to ghost him, it's possible that he values your friendship and doesn't want to lose you completely. It's important to be clear and direct in your communication, but also kind and respectful. If you do need to distance yourself, try to do it in a way that's respectful of his feelings and the friendship that you've built.
Yeah we do. And so it sucks if a girl doesn't want to. In the same way that you hear women get frustrated when a guy only wants sex. Being rejected for love is brutal. Rejected for friendship is possibly more brutal.
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Guys can absolutely genuinely care about female friends,
Yes we care about people the closer you are in our circle the more we care. But if you are a friend you failed your chance for the girlfriend position unless he already have one.
No, I have no desire to have bunch of female Bestie types but I do. It’s annoying cause I don’t even like coffee etc
my guy friend values my friendship i that fct
He must feel rejected?
I personally feel yes
No of course not
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