Do guy's care if a girl hasn't texted them all day? Help?

[Anonymous]

Ok, guys; so I was just wondering if you care and what your thought process were if a girl, or your significant other hasn't texted you all day.

You see, I have a boyfriend, and we text each other at least a little bit every day. We have only been together for a couple of weeks, so the relationship is very new.
The thing is, he doesn't text me as much as I'd like him to. I am very scared of screwing things up by coming across as too needy, so I hold back.
I don't know what to think when I know he's online on social medias and don't even find time to send me one text. He's a very attractive guy with a lot of good female friends - and I know that he talks to to a lot of them on social media on a regular basis.
So he has time to check up on them, but not me,- his girlfriend.
Do you think I'm overreacting or what? Pleas guys help me on this one - I could really use it.

[Joti_Harrison]

Depends on the type of guy. I for instance, like my space to work expecially now that I'm in college. I can't work or have fun right If my head is always in a romantic mood thinking about my girlfriend all day.

I don't mind hitting her up in the morning before I go out to classes. We could definitely spend our weekends together.

Constantly talking to her everyday could become like a chore to some guys and then communication with your girlfriend becomes boring when it is a chore you HAVE to do everyday. Kinda like You gotta report to the misses everyday. I like to have a girl who is confident and knows I'm doing alright If I don't call her for at least one day. A little space is always good for a relationship, It keeps the fire between both of you burning.

You need to understand people are different. And there is no need to just cut him off and assume he is busy talking with other girls. That's something I despise, assumptions and trying to read my mind without just communicating how you feel to see If we can make a compromise.

I see this as a good avenue to grow and experience how other people are in relationships. There are different types of relationship. It's not always the loveydovey emotional roller coaster ones you see on TV all the time.

When real life hits you, certain things are difficult for some people to do on a regular basis. Everyone is not the same, and everyone doesn't need the same affection and reassurance in a relationship as others might need.

[Asker]

Thank you so much, this helps a lot. I haven't thought about looking at this as an experience, and you are probably right when it comes to me overthinking. Thank you for this answer

[Joti_Harrison]

Thanks for MHO

[brenspud]

The thing about being this young is that this is the time in your life to date around (I don't mean sex) and try new things, but it is also the time to learn what you need in a relationship. If you feel this is important, cut him loose and find someone else or at least tell him. 👌

[Asker]

Thank you brenspud, that's great advice🙌

[Anonymous]

You are not overreacting. I mean, if he chats with other females and if he makes them a priority over you who you are supposed to be his girlfriend, I'd assume that he doesn't care that much about your relationship

[shayan7107]

i'd be thinking all day what happend n ol... why was she busy and simply care for her... if she wasn't busyy n purposely didn't message me... then i would do the same with her

[Asker]

Thank you shayan7107...

[shayan7107]

pleasure❤