Hi. My (18) boyfriend (19) has been distant lately. Not only with me but with his friends too. I talked with him, it's basically his college. He has been lacking behind and his deciding to drop out and get a job. Regardless of what his decision will be, I will support him.
He has become very nonchalant, someone who doesn't care about things anymore and if something bad happens, he shrugs it off by saying "i deserve it", this is NOT who he is. He has become very quiet. He has no motivation anymore, He literally said "Im done". Im trying my best to be there for him but i dont know what to do or say to motivate him.
Please help me out. I dont like seeing my boy upset.