I like a guy from my class, do you reckon he might feel the same back?

[chiarasc]

I’ve always like him (20) but not romantically, as I have a boyfriend so I was never attracted to him sexually (or that’s what I wanna think). It’s rather admiration and affection in a friendly manner. Although, I could unexpectedly hugged him sometimes so I guess he was aware I was attracted to him. In January, we spontaneously started texting for hours during some nights, and we got to know more about each other having a lot of connection. However, we also talked about sex, made some compliments and shared intimate stuff, which make my crush get super real this time. We have been like this since then and my feelings got more serious, to the point I care about him and text him almost everyday. We spent nights texting each other without stopping for hours talking about relationships, feelings, random stuff, everything. He knows I love him and that I care about him cause I tell him. But at uni, he now acts a little dumb towards me when we’re around his friends and I don’t like that, he’s almost completely different but still nice tho. My boyfriend is aware that I’m friends with him but not too much about the intensity of my crush. I just wonder if this guy might feel the same back, as we always get to talk about sex and relationships when texting or irl. He even told me I could visit his parent’s place in their home town and that I’m gorgeous. But don’t get to feel 100% sure whether or not he might feel the same.

Yes, he does

He doesn’t, just friends

Maybe

[DaveJord]

I never know how to answer these questions, because really who knows? The chances of two people have the same feelings, is like 100 to 1... but that does not mean they are similar.

Only one way to find out. See you say you have this crush... so let me explain to you what the difference is for a guy when comes to liking a girl or having a crush on a girl is.

When a guy knows a woman, and he likes her that means he really thinks she is a cool chick that he can hang out with and have fun with, and maybe fall in love with someday... but he really likes her.

But the idea of crush... well for a guy what does it feel like for a guy when he has a crush on a girl... well it feels like an overwhelming desire to want to fuck this woman. Like I am totally crushing on her... that means he really wants to get to know this woman better, but he would love to smash it first. Now that does mean he could not or would not like her or even love her... but all he is thinking is this that this woman is sexy and I would really love to get to know her better and see where it goes.

So do I think he "might" like you or have the same feelings as you? YES... but those feeling might mean something completely different to a guy then they mean to a girl.

[runnerboy]

If you have talked in detail about sex and seem to have some long texts I'm sure he is interested. But he is probably way confused about your relationship with ur boyfriend. If you want to go out with him or have sex you should probably end things with your boyfriend first. What do you think?

[Anonymous]

So you’re cheating? Stop being selfish and leave that man if you want someone else, I’m sure you’d be livid if the shoe was on the other foot.

[chiarasc]

I’m not sure if I’m actually cheating, we’ve never had any sexual contact or anything and my intention always were being friends but I guess my feelings got more serious and I don’t know what to do

[Opinion Owner]

Your emotionally cheating, and the conversations you have with that other man along with the dynamic you two have is far from Appropriate as a girlfriend.
Genuinely ask yourself, if your man had that sort of friendship with another woman, would you be ok with it? If the answer is yes then you need to leave him, even if it’s no you should probably leave since you’ve taken interest In someone else. But this has to stop, we both know karma always spins the block and you’re racking up some real hurt for yourself. Even if you’re confused, be single while you figure it out. You can’t explore that desire at the expense of someone you’re supposed to love and care for.

[Opinion Owner]

Also please don’t be that sort of woman who wants to secure something else before leaving what she’s already got, because that’s terrible too.

[spartan55]

Ask your boyfriend, he can help you. You are gross and have zero shame about it too.

[Abdulwahh]

Im refering to your statement what you want to think, Even in a relationship it doesn't mean you can't have feelings for another person, just keep it in control

[Iron_Man]

Focus on your boyfriend don’t have a wandering eye

[boobliker]

get chatting and ask him if he likes you enough to take you out

[Cheerfull009]

You like him, but you are not attracted to him, because you have boyfriend, what it means? May be bluffing him, and he knows that

[In_Trance]

yeah, he might