There was a guy who I had a blind date with. When I met him in person, he was half my size, looked like a donkey and was all over me for the whole date, begging me to kiss him constantly and trying to get me to get in his car and sleep with him. Talking about marriage and kids. People were looking at us and laughing, because of him being all over me. I was so desperate to get away that I caught a taxi home. I told him I got back together with my ex and wished him luck and blocked him. He messaged me on WhatsApp, asking why I blocked him. I blocked him there, too. One month later, he rang me from an unknown number, reminding me of who he was, so I hung up on him and blocked him. Why are some men so pushy? I told him something kind before blocking him and thought it kinder to lie than to tell him what a repulsive, desperate creep he was.
Why wouldn’t he leave me alone?
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some men be like that and its not ok, but you should flat out reject him and tell him you are not interested, that you are not attracted and never will be, us women always think about other peoples feelings, but its too much, like is he thinking about your feelings? No, exactly, so be frank last time. Not rude, just clear, how you are not in any way shape or for attracted to him, he is not your type, you dont find him sexually attractive etc. And that his behavior is unaccaptable, that he is acting like a stalker and should take no as an answer and leave you alone. If it doesn't work than blocking, avodin as now.
You check him on the sex offender registry first? He sounds like a rapist. I think you're just telling your story, but if you really need an answer, it's "because the guy was a fucking weirdo." That's all the "why" there is to it.
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I'm sorry but your description of him made me laugh