Why are some men digusted by small breasts?

Question

Even after so many years of knowing that there are men who like small breasts like my boyfriend for example and many more I still get A LOT OF YouTube videos about small boobs and guys saying bigger boobs look better etc etc

Can someone please explain to me why they think big boobs look better? And almost all animated videos created hy men have super curvy women like big boobs and super wide hips, that it looks ridiculously cartoonish and weird. Like, ok, everyone has their preference but why comment under a small boobed girl on her IG post saying stuff like "flat as a door " etc etc?

hahahmm · Accepted Answer

I've never heard a guy say he was disgusted. But let's say two females were identical in every way except one had huge breasts and one was flat chested: 99% of guys will be drawn to the woman with bigger breasts. But life doesn't really work this way. Usually a guy is dealing with one female at a time and there's lots of differences between her and the other females around. Having good character (self respect, accountability, stuff we used to call class) and taking pride in your appearance without looking like a hooker goes a LONG, LONG way. A woman with the right personality can outshine one with bigger breasts who doesn't have that personality. And most women with really big breasts didn't bother to develop attractive personalities because they didn't have to. They got attention without needing to & most people are lazy like that. But when it comes to serious relationships, guys absolutely consider character/personality. I mean you should be FIT, not obese but for most guys that goes without saying.

If all you want out of life is attention from every random guy who doesn't know anything at all about you, and you have tiny breasts, then you may be in trouble. If you want to find serious with a guy who isn't mediocre/bottom feeder type then it doesn't matter.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Don't confuse fantasy with reality. Guys often have fantasies about extreme things, whether it is hypercar, yachts, Matrix-sized gun collections, and girls with huge boobs. In the fantasy world, there are only upsides to extreme things, never any downsides.

But most men are actually pretty practical and grounded in reality, even if we enjoy our childish fantasies. We have no trouble separating the two. So you will notice that MOST men - certainly not all - make mostly practical decisions in their own real lives. Few guys specifically hold out for F-cup girls and ignore all the rest. In real life, girls with huge boobs have struggles, and most guys understand that.

If you don't understand that most men have a fantasy side of their lives, where they imagine being a Fast And Furious driver, or a Jedi, or a Top Gun pilot, or James Bond, or whatever, then you would take such fantasy talk seriously, and that would be a mistake, because it isn't serious for most men. It's just how we manage the pressure of life - an escape into fantasy for a little while.

Red-Blaze · Accepted Answer

This may be really silly, bit I do remmber reading once about it, that its something about the brests reminding/connected in mans brain to the ass in shape and so on
And bigger ass connect to larger tights that is connected to stronger legs and from that better for babys that connect back to the the sruvival instenct
Something of that sort, not sure if be able to find it
Will say that more personally most man I talked to said its mostly that they like to have more to play with, having more surface for the hands, and the softness of the bigger and more bouncy of a larger brests

Now if any of that hold water... I got no idea, and will not take any of that as fact, some is what my possibly gold fish memmory remmbers and the rest is a small group from humanity I meet so.. dont think really show much

Reardless, dont care for it, some like this some that, nothing is better on that, you got someone that fits you its what matters really

Sarahr123 · Accepted Answer

I am a natural 28F or 32DD and wish I were bigger like I wish I were a 28GG or 32DDDD - but naturally not with implants however, I don’t want to gain weight as I am happy being very slender with big boobs and wide hips.

Men find big boobs and wide hips sexy on a woman because it symbolises youth and fertility. Big boobs and wide hips are a sign of high levels of oestrogen in a female. Men (exlude overweight men) don’t have big boobs because they have testosterone and are not going to be feeding babies so small boobs and narrow hips are seen as androgynous features which is why the great majority of straight men will be inclined towards a woman with ample breasts and good waist definition. This figure is known as the hourglass figure.

RingOfFire · Answer

There is so much to this question. To try to keep it short I will say this.

Don't believe what you read on the Internet. People have many motives for writing things. I often see posts on this site by guys that try to make girls feel bad about themselves just because they get some kind of thrill doing this. Maybe they have low opinions of themselves and it makes them feel powerful to denigrate women publicly.

Believe it or not there is also a political agenda aspect to this. Here in America there has been this trend to push the notion that the body type that women of a certain race typically have is the most desirable. It is a kind of brainwashing that is everywhere. That false notion is pushed in the media everywhere from commercials for products to entertainment and all over the social media. And that body type is the thick curvy body with big boobs and a big butt. Don't be fooled by this. Not every man wants that. It is designed to try to push the idea that people of this race are the ideal and people of another race are not.

All of this has an agenda. It is NOT reality. There are plenty of guys who prefer small boobs or skinny women, or small butts.

Some people like the color green, some like pink and some like blue. You can't explain why people like what they like. It is a matter of something in their brains and in their inner self.

Sure there are lots of men who prefer big boobs. This is natural. Women's boobs are a symbol of fertility and nature designed them to attract men. But I guarantee you there are plenty of men who prefer small boobs too. I won't go into my theory of why small boobs are also a natural attraction for men here. But there could be evolutionary reasons for that too.

PhantomxForce · Answer

I will never say I am disgusted by small boobies. That is just disrespectful and distasteful. Really.

I just have a preference for big breasts. They bounce really nicely, when I'm making love to a woman with big breasts I can still eat them when she's laying on her back, I'm the gourmand style, I love to have more to play on, I'm just drawn to it.

With small boobies, it's great, but as soon as she lays down they kind of... disappear. =/ It's really just a matter of preference. I love curvy women with big breasts (notice here, I said curvy; not obese)

But do I think that small boobs are disgusting? Absolutely not. They are just as beautiful. It's just not my cup of tea. Would that prevent me to date a girl with small boobies? Nope, definitely not. But given the choice, I'd take the curvy big-breasted one any day of the week. Just a matter of preference / taste.

Plus, attraction is not a choice. You don't get to decide who and what attracts you in the first place. We all have to understand that simple concept.

KingslayerC · Answer

Because different guys are attracted to different things. Just like some women would be grossed out by a guy with a one inch penis, bald head, excessive body hair, dwarfism, or pot belly, some guys are grossed out by certain features on women. The real question is why people choose to say these things to others, when they weren't asked. Could be a ton of reasons, but 99% of the time I see men and women insulting each other's looks, it's out of spite over something else they don't like about the person. Typically attitude or politics.

In the end, we all have to accept that everyone has different preferences, and there will always be people that are grossed out by the way we look. You have to learn to accept it and live your life.

nastyb · Answer

here's the truth coming from a girl with C breasts that look like size B. my breasts lack volume but are wide enough to fit a C cup even though it might not fill in the cup entirely.

Men are not disgusted by small breasts. Most of them are desperate for breasts. They are happy to see ANY kind of breast at all. Truth is... most of them do prefer larger breasts. With larger breasts, there is more to play with which makes thing in bed more fun and sexy.

In porn videos, I would always see guys sucking these perfect beautiful braests non stop but the guys that I have been with will just suck my boobs for 4 mins then just ignore them for the rest of the time. It sucks. The bigger your boobs, the more he will want to suck on them.

Best healthiest way to get bigger boobs without all the trauma and risks of surgery is to get pregnant.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I am yet to meet a man to get disgusted by small boobs, even the ones who claim so… In truth fantasize about them.

The harder he claims he is “disgusted” of it, the harder he jerks on the thought of sucking them. That’s just a human mind.

asphaltrhymes · Answer

👀👀👀 I for one have noticed that whether small breasts or larger breasts or freakishly large real breasts even, women in a flirty or romantic context have never approached me or looked my way or flirted. So I for one often am fine with any breast size, but sometimes with me, I do wonder whether I should be picky, even if any woman, not just any woman, someday, ever flirts with me or wants to date me and actually takes an interest 👌👌👍👍 you know. Otherwise at the moment, sure as a single man, I like big breasts porn, I like small or average breasts porn. So go figure, merrily written politely tone never bitter tone 😋✌🏻☮️

John_Doesnt · Answer

It's really insensitive for guys to say that. Everyone has their own preference for body type. They should be more understanding of how you were born that way and should not make comments like that.

Guys should never make comments like: flat as a board, pirate's dream (sunken chest), boy boobs, airstrip, Kansas, whisper boobs, carpenter's dream, Sierra Nevada pancakes, tortilla boobs, skittle boobs, dry docking, Babalons, flat city, Taylor Swift, sail boat, and flatty McGee.

Levin · Answer

Those men are just bitter so empowering themselves in whatever way they can.

I mean, a lot of people don't like different things.

If you post a picture, you get 100s of simps giving you compliments.

And yet you always focus on the negativity. Like it's you choosing to focus on the negativity.

I honestly don't think you'd survive as a guy. Because we don't get a 1/10 of the attention and the compliments that you get. And yet you're still unhappy.

OneViewpoint · Answer

I have literally never heard even one guy say he's disgusted by small breasts on a woman. I was hanging out with 2 gorgeous women last night. Both petite blondes with A-cup breasts. On their petite slender frames an A-cup looked perfectly proportional and just "right". I'd have trouble imagining them any other way.

The guys hanging out on Instagram and making those comments are either 15 years old or they never matured beyond that age. The problem is you're hanging out on Instagram.

Leapfrog00 · Answer

I had a guy friend once that was into girls with huge tits, and he told me he liked them bigger because there was more to play with and stick his dick in between, lol.

Honestly though, the breasts don't make a girl. A girl has so much more to offer. I usually look at the facial features, skin tone, freckles, eye color. I think freckles look cute on a girl.

Breast size shouldn't matter. I've dated girls with big, medium, and small, and I think all sizes look good. Honestly, I find it harder to hug a girl with bigger ones because they get in the way!

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Disgusted? I think that's a little extreme. And those weirdos who animate stuff have made it a sort of inside joke to oversexualize the characters, especially the woman. You could say it's embedded in their culture. Nothing against it personally lol. But yea those guys love to take an idea and stretch it and re-invent it.

And if course girls with big breasts are always going to be more mainstream because you can do more with them.

But you really shouldn't let it get you feeling any type of way. First of all, for a girls breasts to be big enough that it really makes a difference, they need to be back breackingly big. And for me personally, going through extra effort to have sex with big breasted women was mostly because I was 20 and really wanted to tittyfuck someone.

I don't have much of a preference one way or the other.

MrPickles13 · Answer

Honestly big breasts they aren't as attractive as small ones. I think it's a massive thing about how the media shapes the world and how other people's thoughts impact on others. There are things that suggest part of that is biological as well. Due to those things suggesting fertility. I've never looked into the validity of this.

For me I think smaller breasts are much more beautiful there are many pluses to them and they look sexier in underwear. And they are without a doubt better looking.

Sorry for my words being all over the place. Hopefully I've made sense.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

They just have a preference. I like c cups but I still like smaller boobs too. But men usually like any type of boobs and are happy with what their woman has. The men who say those things you mentioned just want women to feel bad about their bodies. And because they probably don't have any hobbies in their real life.

WonderBell99 · Answer

Men who are "disgusted" by small breasts have clearly never been with a woman. They're probably just internet incels who have nothing better to do.

Miristheiss · Answer

I don't know what you are talking about. I doubt anyone is disgusted by small breasts.

Some may prefer bigger but I doubt those numbers are an overly large segment of men.

Tons of men love smaller breasts.

I reject your premise.

Xoxo420 · Answer

All boobs are beautiful no matter the size💗
A lot of people may have preferences with what they want in a person, but that doesn’t mean you aren’t just as beautiful if you aren’t close to their wants.
I’m happy you have a boyfriend who shows you the love you deserve.

little_bird1 · Answer

I have never heard any man being disgusted by breasts, small or big (not even my gay friends)!. I think what people don't like in general is anything that is too much or too little, I know some women with huge breasts that are constantly teased by guys. As it's with everything else (butt, nose, ears, eyes...) so is with breasts.

Pinay_ako · Answer

Titties are titties. If some guys don’t like small titties, that’s on them. What counts is what YOUR man thinks. I think small titties are beautiful. I got small ones and I love them. Small but humble.

Red_Arrow · Answer

There is no reason for any guy to be disgusted by any size breasts. They certainly can prefer large breasts, but smaller ones do not impact them at all. So a lot of guys love small breasts and a lot of guys don't. Just preferences. Guys that make comments that are abusive about any size are just morons who like to hurt people.

AaronKrieger · Answer

You must be talking to some redditors if you're hearing a guy say "small breasts disgusts them." Some guys might not be attracted to it or prefer them, but that's just due to what some people are naturally into. Most guys I feel like might have a preference, but don't give a shit, lmao

RavVid · Answer

I can't explain big boob enthusiasm as I like small cupable boobies.

With drawings I think they have to be exaggerated to be sexy because nothing else is there if that makes sense.

I have no idea why some need to be insulting but assume they can let their true nature out in anonymity. I try to call it as I see but there is no need to insult.

Dargil · Answer

I like them just fine and would love on them right down to Kansas flat. What's  NOT  to love?

stratford · Answer

It's just stupid guys who think it's cool to be negative about people's bodies. It's the same with girls who are negative about guys with smaller dicks, although that is slightly different.

I don't know how small your boobs are but you should be proud of them and show them off. There are loads of guys (including me) who love small boobs.

soe11 · Answer

To be honest I love it, my ex girlfriend Younaidah Ishaaq got same, really really lovely, attractive, and sexy but nipples was bigger and tender, she doesn't wear bra outdoor and indoor.

She get compliments when she wear transparent outfit.

Anyway I love them.

loveslongnails · Answer

Let the guys who are disgusted with small breasts date all the women with great big floppy boobs then! I'd rather not choose to have big boobs slamming into my face in the first place, but some men like that. For all who do, there are plenty who don't.

ChiTown33 · Answer

Sounds to me like they have some weird fixation. Kind of like I'm sure women like a guy with 6 pack abs. But does having 6 pack abs make you a better person? No. But some women still have this fixation.

This is probably more true of young men and women. I'm not saying all grow out of it but most do.

Ironic_Method · Answer

It's more because it's easy to bully people for small breaststroke. Most men don't really care too much. Others care, and others watch too much porn and think big tits are the only way to enjoy sex.

People have different preferences, don't think too much about it.

Berethor · Answer

Well a big boobs look maturer and sexier, while a small boobs look younger and cuter. :)

AmeerX · Answer

Lol, 😅 flat as a door. That's a new one.

Anyhow to answer the question, I am always loved girls with flat as a door type of chest 🙈. They are super cute and lovely 😍🌹.

As to why guys don't like, I think they probably think girls with breasts are more mature when that's totally not true

UniquelyBasic · Answer

I don't think someone being disgusted by a certain body type is wrong at all. People are just going to have a preference for what they like. I think it becomes an issue when you belittle someone for their body because you don't prefer it or expect a person to look a certain way.

PartyHostSebastian · Answer

I don't know any so I don't want to agitate them about being around the more plush sizes except for going to parades and live house sound events like bulldog bikes neither really wins and that's what it's called.. I'd rather the plusher sizes for my own reasons

htmndg183 · Answer

Probably a lot of porn influence. I honestly don't understand. I have never in my life come across a man in my social circle who reject a woman or broke up with her based on her boob size. I really hope people are not that shallow outside the screens.

TallAnon · Answer

I love all sizes.
The reason I assume some men like more accentuated boobs and hips is just increased femininity. Boobs = woman, bigger boobs = more woman
I think their unconscious is just that simple.

That does not excuse people from insulting people that are not their perfect image.

Andres77 · Answer

Some people like red better than blue. So what? The ONLY persons opinion that matters is your partner. Screw the rest of them. You are NOT going to be desired equally by ALL people.

accept it and move on.

Vikkrram · Answer

Look it's natural that girls with curves and big boobs would get more attention than girls who have small boobs coz people are attracted towards them. They have sexual thought wid them some have fantasy.

exitseven · Answer

I think it is a myth that just propagates itself. I watched a girl walk across the street in front of me and she had ridiculously big boobs. I thimought she was pretty except she was too top heavy.

strateguy632 · Answer

my personal preference is size b or c no need for dd nor g nor j!! if big it is a "sacrifice" that i make in exchange for other qualities. i also feel big is fake.

DarkLegacy · Answer

Natural selection is the answer, bigger breast are a sign of healthiness and good genes and better fertility.  This explains better

Filthy_Immigrant · Answer

obviously because the dudes who claim they like small ones are just lying in order to not hurt your feelings. action will always speak louder than words in the end cause these same dudes that say the prefer smaller will no doubt beat off to women like Lisa Ann on the down low

till then we find women with small to no boobs as disgusting as you women find us men who are below 6 feet disgusting

Grond21 · Answer

I've never heard of a man disgusted by smaller ones. I genuinely like larger ones because of the presence they give to a woman. You get a lot of YouTube videos about this? I have never seen even one.

Jerre · Answer

Not me, I love all sizes. Really do like small tits as long as they have a nice nipple to suck on.

boggboss · Answer

Just people being assholes same way some women love to comment on a guys hight or his dick size people love making others feel like shit

DiegoO · Answer

Disgusted no. Turn off, yes. But for A cup. From B cup to E cup, it's all good.

mommymommymommy · Answer

I'm not disgusted by them, i just don't prefer them

runnerboy · Answer

Cat I'm not... I actually prefer smaller ones... but I don't have a lot of experience since I'm 17. But the ones I have seen and touched have been great and were not large. What do u think?

Typhon_ · Answer

preferences that might be instinctive and have to do with the woman's nurturing system being her breast and the relation of size to milk quality? well I personally don't care but that's my theory lmfao

Danny_dan92 · Answer

I’m not, I prefer a pretty face and nice ass more than tits. She could be flat chested and I wouldn’t care.

Rohaan2020 · Answer

I donno if any men are disgusted by that… at least i am not… i admit i do like bigger one’s but its not that i find smaller disgusting… smaller ones are good too.. they have their own benefits…

and about creating perfect figure anime, even for men those are created with a V shape body with 8 packs and all… so don bother about that…

we should ofcourse try nd improve our personality but we should not feel bad about what we have only bcz others can’t praise it

Fireguy17 · Answer

No, I don't have a boob fetish. So the women that have the freakishly large ones are a turn off for me.

fyrds · Answer

Personally I prefer smaller ones, and tbh I'm all about the nipple anyway :)

Billlewis · Answer

I don't mind if a woman has small breasts, as long as she has a big butt and/or pretty feet.

smilelots · Answer

wow were did you hear men some of them are disgusted by small breast.. thats news to me maybe they like larger breast but to say they are digusted is the wording wrong.. I say it is.

Jazzy54 · Answer

I say screw ‘em. Don’t like my small boobs? Nice knowing ya, buddy. 😊👋🏽✌🏾

worldscolide · Answer

Dunno, guys are idiots. Most of us just like breasts. For me personally it's more about shape than size honestly.

Meropatrick · Answer

Because men want woman who Look feminine. A smaller breast resembles a man's body. Men dont find that attractive

Keishio · Answer

Disgusted probably isn't the word. But the same reason women prefer tall guys because is appears more masculine, men prefer bigger boobs because it appears more feminine

billmunch · Answer

I prefer small tits. Anything from completely flat chested to an A cup is hot.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I like any size breast a girl has. So it doesn't matter to me.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

The internet is not real life. The overwhelming majority of guys don’t care if you have A or D-Cups.

slatyb · Answer

No idea. I do not like very large breasts. I don't think women should have surgery to make their breasts appear larger unless it's affecting their career.

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