Is it a good thing that men stare a lot, even when you don't show much skin?

[Anonymous]

I've been bullied a lot so that's why I ask. I think too negative.

Some men keep staring even if they know I found out that they stare, some men keep staring but also just stare from head to toe, some men stare and when I notice them; they quickly look away.
Some men I met and most men I never met.
Is it just lust?

[Anonymous]

The other day I wore a blusen that showed some cleavage and I tried to hide it but men kept staring intense.. one evan sat infront of me in the subway and took a picture... his sound was on and just kept staring.. there were like 10 men staring that day. So weird. I never had that happen before... I did everything to hide it.

I'm definatly sewing that blouse up lol.

But to answer your question. It's a good sign.

[Asker]

Ohhh that's too bad. That you can't wear cute clothes.

I don't even show cleavage and still they stare.

Oh that's good to know!

[Opinion Owner]

Lol yeah im ugly so thats good for you🤣😌😭

[Opinion Owner]

Thats you AI

[ProbablyClueless]

It's usually just absent-minded staring. Sometimes it's lust though.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you are more attractive than you realize?

[Asker]

Maybe it can be that. I don't know

[MementoMori777]

they are checking you out

[Asker]

Is checking out a good thing?

[MementoMori777]

depends on how you look at it cause some women like it and others dont, the possibility of them sexualizing you are high when someone is checking you out, unless they are just admiring your appearance, which isn't as common as sexualization in society.