Boyfriend said he needs space after fight but it’s been 6 days?

[Anonymous]

How long do I give him space for? Last time we spoke was 6 days ago, he was still mad and when I tried talk to him he said leave him alone. So I did I said if he wants to talk then I’ll leave it up to him. And radio silence since then. Do I talk to him again or let him talk to me? It feels kinda long..

[chicken_nugget24]

Wait u live together but haven't spoken in 6 days?

[Asker]

Yeah we say hi but that’s it, no convo. Last time I tried to speak to him he said leave me alone

[chicken_nugget24]

Leave him alone then. Where is he sleeping,?

[Asker]

In our bedroom we just don’t talk. He didn’t give me a timeline when he will speak to me so I’m hurt and miss him

[chicken_nugget24]

Sleep on the sofa. Literally avoid him

[Asker]

Wouldn’t that make things worse and more distance between us?

[chicken_nugget24]

Well u want to speak to him. I'm not sure what to do sorry. Can't u text him saying sorry and that u need to speak

[Asker]

I’ve done that and he just says he’s not in the mood to talk

[chicken_nugget24]

Then the space thing. Is there anywhere u can stay?

[Asker]

Nope nowhere at all. Its also his birthday in 2 days and we had plans

[chicken_nugget24]

Fuck. You gotta try to talk to him. I'm sorry

[Asker]

I have tried multiple times and he gets more angry and said I’m pissing him off more so I literally can’t, i said if he wants to talk me when he’s ready he can but he hasn’t

[chicken_nugget24]

I'm sorry. Give him space ig

[Asker]

I’ve given 6 days space I don’t know how much more I can take of it

[chicken_nugget24]

That's why I said sleep on the sofa. Or u can start crying. Works with my boyfriend because I'm so stressed

[Asker]

I was crying next to him last night and he didn’t say anything

[Asker]

He normally doesn’t react to me crying at all so that wouldn’t help

[Asker]

So I’m sure me sleeping on the sofa would also make no difference to him

[chicken_nugget24]

Sleep on sofa. Or do u have ant other beds?

[Asker]

Honestly me sleeping anywhere else wouldn’t make a difference to him

[chicken_nugget24]

Maybe say u maybe r pregnant? Would that work?

[Anonymous]

I say test him and ask how much time he needs.

[Asker]

Oh I did text him that like 5 days ago and he said he doesn’t know when we will be talking again

[Opinion Owner]

Hmm, I’d wonder if need things and doesn’t have the balls to tell you.

[Asker]

What do you mean? He just still seems angry so I’m not sure

[Opinion Owner]

He wants to break up

[Asker]

I doubt it , we live together so I’m sure he would tell me