If you're an average looking guy but make enemies easily? ?

[Anonymous]

But you're not bothering anybody nor trying to flirt or whatever

[kylee2437]

Making enemies easily should not be a positive outlook on life. That means you are coming off overly aggressive for no reason.

[Asker]

But I'm quite & don't step out of my boundaries (flirt, gossip)

[kylee2437]

In order to make enemies easily, you would have to put yourself out there to make those enemies, so that doesn’t sound like an honest reply back.

[Asker]

Like I said

I know my "league"

I don't go out looking to score/bang chicks or kick it with "bros"

[kylee2437]

That’s not what I was referring to. Seems like lack of self awareness. Can’t help there

[inhua]

you're an enemy when you're perceived to not "stay in your lane"

[Asker]

As in?

[inhua]

you associating yourself with people "above your league"

granted that leagues don't actually exist and it's a feminist social construct designed to put certain men in their place and follow the unwritten rules of society

[Asker]

😂 I don't hang out with anybody & in terms of "artificial success" I can safely say I'm "better"

Im in very great shape (vascular/cuts) & I used to put up BIG numbers on the weight rack & do a lot of high reps on bodyweight exercises

I've competed in a FEW online gaming tournaments & won SOME

In terms of "sex"... only once but I was enticed by SOME woman here & there when I was younger

[inhua]

apparently there's a lot of people out there with "artificial success" who disagree with you

that's how enemies are made

[Asker]

I've had my "triumphs" here & there & I'm fine with that

[DrKrieger]

Have you considered what you say both nonverbal and spoken?

[Asker]

As in?

[DrKrieger]

If you need me to explain this then that's probably your issue.

- interrupting people mid sentence

- glaring at people from across the room

[Asker]

I don't talk to anybody nor engage in conversations or try to flirt or ask any gal out & yet I'm perceived as some "threat"

Girls purposely avoid eye contact & act all scared

Guys try to act all "macho" & condencending but very subtle & they avoid eye contact as well

[DrKrieger]

Choosing not to talk is in fact a form of communicating. Think back in school, did kids suspect the obnoxious class clown, athletic jock, or loner emo kid to be the one who shoots up the place?

[Asker]

I dropped out of highschool in my freshman year

[Asker]

So I never got a chance to do anything socially with others

[DrKrieger]

The loner emo kid is universally assumed to be the school shooter. Your coworkers probably think you are one bad experience away from going berserk

[Asker]

You're an idiot lol

Not an emo 😂

Im of southern European decent (tan/dark hair/built)

I'll still conversate with you but you have to ASK instead of assume