If a lot of unnatractive guys hit on you, does that mean you're ugly?

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A little about my sitaution. I'm single, but i do date a lot. I'm 23. 4'11. 105 pounds, black hair, green eyes.

They call me "Ant" at work. Because I'm the shortest one there. I've dated a couple of guys at work. One of them was incredibly handsome and the others were cute. But I get hit on way more by unnattractive guys than decent looking guys. Like I have a manager who continuously hits on me and I try to shut it down as fast as I can. But he's persistent. A few other coworkers of mine and people at my university have hit on me and the majority are just not my type.

Im just curious if the majority of people who hit on you are unattractive, does that mean you're unnatractive?
I attached a photo of myself for reference.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Asked myself that before. It was like all guys I was attracted to were just too perfect and handsome to me because they never hit on me. Only those ugly guys, I don't want to sound mean and I now I'm not better than anyone but God I deserved better than those guys. Anyway I didn't think I was very ugly but It was more about my personality, I was kinda a little rebel with few extra pounds. When I turn 18 I had lost some weight, changed my clothes and dyed my hair blonde also became a sociable butterfly and more outgoing. I think It depends on your personality and how you behave to those you want to attract.

_caaaaaaam · Accepted Answer

You’re okay. I don't know, it’s just a gamble really. It’s like a lottery. How many attractive guys do you think actually exist? Maybe a good 20% of the people you meet. If that’s the case, then you’re only going to get hit on 10% cute guys and whatever whatever

Thia18 · Accepted Answer

You aren’t ugly. Beautiful. Maybe it’s cause of your personality and that you’re fun size so guys are less afraid to hit on you.

ivaneh · Accepted Answer

I don't think you can judge how attractive you are by the type of people who hit on you.

Generally men who don't look that well and are generally aware of that will become very intrusive and basically try with anything that comes their way. And it helps them do that if you're short/tiny as in your case because they feel more confident and dominant. Basically you are a target for their insecurities and complexes.

Which sucks but you can't really do anything about it except being a bitch which will have other unpleasant repercussions.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

This is a ridicous question and I think you you're arrogantly fishing for compliments and assurance. If not then I'll spell it out for you. No, males attention doesn't mean your ugly in fact it's the opposite (logic, try it). Maybe your just around ugly guys or have high standards. I can't believe I had to say that.

kbharadwaj3125 · Answer

Most people prefer small women due to all those romantic drama series in TV and movies.. And even if there is a one in a million chance we guys would take it.. Coz what's wrong in giving a try. If you accepted then that would have hit the lottery right. So no problem.

brocklee · Answer

Not at all.

You probably have a personality type that makes those guys either feel more comfortable with asking and/or is such that you seem attainable.

You should look at it like this, the unattractive guys are putting themselves out there less often. If they are actually asking you, it means you have something pretty cool going on for them to overcome the fear of rejection.

Prakbio · Answer

i think you are beautiful.. i also want to hit you... now it is not mine problem is that i am unattractive from your point of view.
it is like if i like to have a diamond (you) but i don't have money {attractive looks] but it would not stop me from looking {approaching} ..
actually what i want to say is may be you give them reason to hit you:
like dress , or the way you walk or see them , or the way you talk to them they found it attractive and tries to hit you.

soul1112 · Answer

I just think you haven't had the best of luck. You're honestly pretty hot (like damn, your clothes in the first one). You can be hit on by anyone, and this kind of stuff happens to guys to. It's just that less attractive people may feel like they don't really have anything to lose.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm gonna be honest. You're sounding very prideful and vain. I appreciate your honesty about what you want, but you also seem to take your genetic gifts for granted. Me, a somewhat attractive guy ( 6 or 7 in looks) gets called handsome by many girls on facebook, ugly and beautiful alike. But, I kinda enjoy it. No offense, I find you to be very narcissistic just like any other person of you're level of attractiveness. Not even average people get hit on lol... So, get your head up, and accept things for that they are. You probably don't know what it's like to be ugly tbh

Anonymous · Answer

No, I am pretty and the ugly boys be like aaayy baybeee, wanna fk?, like all the time. Cute guys are shy but show interest, I never hit on them first so I ended up in the past with the zuglees who by the way are insecure and abusive assholes.

Dxk007 · Answer

You are attractive but, you're judging others based on their attractiveness rather than their personality or other factors so, how can you say whether someone is your type or not just by looking at him?

Anonymous · Answer

Nope... it's because more unattractive people are single than attractive ones, is it not?

Christopherthrob · Answer

Birds of a feather hang together so you might want to try to change who you attract try hanging out with the H2O Polo guys they are all good looking people in great shape and maybe some will fuck you if you let them do good luck 🍀

HungLikeAHorsefly · Answer

Sigh. You're a hot girl. Guys hit on hot girls. Even the ugly guys. At the age of 23, you should know this by now.

vittle1999 · Answer

Doesn't matter who hits on u. Fact is they hit on u cause they think u look good. Noone really hits on ugly looking people.

Tania_bilkis · Answer

No you're not ugly. At least unattractive guys hit on you.  In my case i become the the "Dude" or "Lesbian" ..😂😂

That1tallguy · Answer

Well im skinny and the only girls who hit on me 80% of the time are fat. Why? Does that mean I'm fat

ThePetSquirrel · Answer

No, it means that you don't find the guys that hit on you attractive.

es20490446e · Answer

No. Simply put unattractive people hit more often, because they have less opportunities.

princiee · Answer

Because they are unattractive so more inclined to the attractive one... like how magnet works

jdashado · Answer

You know you're smoking hot. Im gonna hit on you too!:) Can i get your number hun?

yaons · Answer

Damn your not ugly but hot asf, they hit you up because your attractive.

shyIEguy · Answer

You are very very much ATTRACTIVE :)  Damn nice 1st pic :)

rishii111 · Answer

No dear u so much sexy and cute I like you so I want to bring you for dating dear

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