If a lot of unnatractive guys hit on you, does that mean you're ugly? (Page 2)

[Anonymous]

Well you must be thinking too highly of yourself to be saying this.

[TheChatWanderer]

She's hot but full of hot air

[Asker]

I think there's a difference between having a good self esteem and being conceited. The "unnatractive" guys to me are guys that are way older than Me. Like old enough to be my father. Or guys who don't take care of themselves. Everyone has standards. Its not about if I think highly of myself or not.

[Opinion Owner]

I've seen better looking girls than her. And they don't even need makeup to look decent. Lol

[Asker]

I've actually been told I look better without makeup. So that's okay. 🤷‍♀️

[Opinion Owner]

Sure lol. Whatever makes you feel better about yourself.

[Asker]

Also. It was just a question. I mean, what are your deal breakers when it comes to girls? If a girl was missing teeth and had severe tooth decay because she didn't brush, would you still find her attractive? Because that's the first thing I notice about a guy, his smile. Guys that want to be sugar daddy's hit on me, and I'm definitely NOT interested in that. It's simple stuff. I don't think I'm hot or anything. I think I'm decent. I'm in shape, I have a good job, I don't smoke, and i take care of myself, so is it bad that i expect the same out of my partner?

[Anonymous]

Why would non attractive stop hitting on you because you are attractive? Makes no sense at all.

If you are just looking for confirmation why not just go on tinder like every other girl.

[Asker]

A friend of mine told me that if unnatractive guys hit on you, that means you're unnatractive. That you "attract what you are. I always thought I was average and that comment made me feel pretty shitty about my appearance. But I just wanted to know if that's true. I've actually never gotten many compliments. Aside from family, I've only had about two boyfriends that have told me that they thought I was cute. But that was years ago.

[Opinion Owner]

Well you have a shitty friend that has no grasp over reality.

[desiree512]

K no it does not mean that you're ugly

[cupidkisses]

No that doesn't mean anything like that

[Anonymous]

Not likely