Is it okay for my boyfriend to say that I wasted his time where I was just waiting for him to treat me better?

[Anonymous]

[OlderAndWiser]

Is it "okay?" It's not illegal. Does anyone have rules that covers this situation?

If you weren't happy with him the way he is and you led him on because you expected him to change for you. . . you are naive and you wasted his time. What he said is true. Why did you expect him to change?

[Asker]

I didn't want him to change for me I just wanted to treat me good like not doing or saying disrespectful things

[JeffersonA]

Well maybe depends on who he is but sounds like he is screaming get used to my shit cause her won't change any or treat you nicer!

What things do you want him to get better on? Might have to leave him cause there is a huge red flag!

[Asker]

I just wanted him to not say and do hurtful things to me that's it

[JeffersonA]

Then he gave you an answer he won't ever treat you right! He will always hurt you and say nasty things!

He is giving you the answer you need to break up with him.
You need better! But he won't be better for you

[JeffersonA]

Thanks for MHO

[Billlewis]

'He said, she said...', but I'm biased; I usually tend to believe her.

[ProbablyClueless]

Gonna need a lot more context here. It sounds like you guys' communication wasn't very good.

[In_Trance]

you guys need to learn to communicate more effectively

[Anonymous]

Don't sacrifice self-respect just because you love him...