So I'm a hairdresser and I make my schedule but I also don't at the same time so a lot of people work and can't get off early so yesterday I told my boyfriend we can hang out tommorow but I don't know when I'm working bc I didn't have my schedule so I don't know if I said 330 or what but he said I did, he said "you're fucking with my time schedule and i fucking hate when you pull this bullshit" and I told him I don't I just don't know when my work is and if I said 330 I'm sorry I didn't look at my schedule it was my mistake and I don't get off till 430. His answer was "You did you told me you'd be ready by 3- 330 the latest so i scheduled shit around that i have a job to look at and errands to run with my grandmother, Dont make plans with me if you can't be here on time even if it's 10 minutes late dont waste my fucking time i got shit to do." How do I respond to that or what do I do bc now I feel like he's fucking with my work and that isn't good.
My boyfriend told me I wasted his time is this true or is he just overreacting?
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It's understandable that your boyfriend may be frustrated if he feels that you are not respecting his time and commitments. However, it's important to remember that your job and work schedule are important as well, and it's not fair for him to blame or berate you for something that was not entirely within your control.
It's important to have open and honest communication with your boyfriend about your schedules and commitments, and to try and work together to find a solution that works for both of you. If you are unable to make it to a scheduled meeting or event on time, it's important to communicate this as soon as possible and try to make alternative arrangements.
However, if your boyfriend continues to blame and berate you for things that are not entirely within your control, it may be worth considering whether this is a healthy and respectful relationship. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and work with your partner to find solutions that work for both of you.
Surely there is more to this.
Nope that's literally all bc I said 3 or 330 deadass
I'm talking about previous fights playing a part?