My boyfriend stopped texting me because of money?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend asked me one month ago to help him in his investment, he said a little money was left to complete his investment, I wanted to help him neglecting my own problem... my health (I have bacterial infection which keeps coming back) I failed in helping him. And he let out his whole frustration on me, talking how bad I am, who wasted his time (when he had little to complete) and not missing one second to lash out on me. And saying crap like he still love me and he made an oath can't leave me. Then I told him i'm not holding him he's free if he staying and loving bc of oath, he didn't like it says because of something he asks me to do i talk back to him. But since then he has stopped texting and calling me his love or anything like that. God knows how much i tried to get an loan, i didn't was rejected now im the worst woman

[Little_Bumblebee]

Unless you are married, don't involve big money and investments in the relationship. Him reacting like that is such a red flag. I would run.

[Asker]

Yes that's true and I almost made a big mistake, but my problem I have a really good heart.

[Little_Bumblebee]

You can set out boundaries and say no to things and still have a good heart.

[TheVigilantFox]

You shouldn’t be neglecting your own health to help anyone, you come first no one else, and by the sound of it he sounds like a right child getting nasty cause he can’t get his own way, if I was you I’d be happy he’s not talking anymore just block him and move on, you need caring people in your life not money grabbers which he sounds like. I hope that you manage to sort out your health and get better.