Why would he ask for Snapchat and do nothing?

[Anonymous]

I matched with a 29-year-old guy and he is very, very attractive.

After we matched he asked for my Snapchat. He asked me where I was from and then we never spoke again it’s been a few days?

All he does is post on his Snapchat story…did he add me just to watch his story I don’t get it? 🤣

Updates

+1 y

Guys he’s just really cute 😭😭😭 but I don’t want to get too invested if he’s not putting any effort in. Like what if he has a girlfriend

[GreatBigCircles]

Have you reached back out to him? If you don't initiate any chats with him, he might have assumed you weren't interested and didn't want to bother you.

[Asker]

If I wasn’t interested why would I match him lol

[ProbablyClueless]

He's probably just busy living his life. I do this kind of thing more than I want to admit lol

[Asker]

Why ask to add me then 😭

[ProbablyClueless]

Because he'll reach out when he has the chance.

[Asker]

I see!! Okay

[Ali4Sy]

Maybe he is a little shy 😂

Or maybe he is just trying to increase his friends on Snapchat 😂💔

[Asker]

I’m confused 🤣

[Ali4Sy]

Just unfollow him then you'll know 😂

[Asker]

Loooool

[Ali4Sy]

😂😂

[Jamie05rhs]

"All he does is post on his Snapchat story…did he add me just to watch his story I don’t get it? 🤣"

Welcome to OUR world! HAHAHA!

[Asker]

What do you mean haha

[Jamie05rhs]

@LostandFound___x A lot of girls add guys to their Instagram or SnapChat accounts, and then they post a lot of random shit, but they never actually talk to the guy. So I really don't see what the point is. I don't care about looking at pictures of people I don't know.

[Jamie05rhs]

@LostandFound__x

[Asker]

That’s true 😂😂 it’s weird. I think some people live more on social media than they do in real life.

[Jamie05rhs]

IKR?

[TheNurse]

Maybe he's waiting for you to write him?

[Asker]

I don't know 😂

[Decoded93]

He sounds super lame

[Asker]

He’s acting like a 15 year old but he’s very cute

[Decoded93]

Try sending him a message! Maybe he doesn't want to bother you cause he doesn't know you're interested

[Asker]

I matched with him shouldn’t he know that means I’m interested lol

[Decoded93]

A lot of guys just swipe on everyone and then filter out who they want to talk to when they see their matches because it saves a ton of time, he might be thinking you do something similar or that you changed your mind, just say hi and then if he doesn't reply I'd say he has weird behaviour lol

[Asker]

Oh….. wow. I didn’t realise it was that intense lol. Maybe one day I’ll have the courage to say hi to him.

[Decoded93]

Send him a message "by mistake" and apologize! You just need to get your foot in the door

This might not be the best approach but it opens up communication at least :) it could start up a conversation, especially if he reads between the lines, and you don't have to work up quite as much courage as being direct

[Asker]

Do you think he will know? I’ve done that before and the guy called me out for it 😂

[Decoded93]

I don't think he'll be judgmental, if it happens he will probably like it and try to talk to you! You're an attractive lady so don't worry too much!

[Asker]

Aw thanks! Okay

[Decoded93]

You're welcome :)

[mommymommymommy]

Dont use dating apps. THEYRE SCAMS

[Asker]

Why?

[mommymommymommy]

Because they are

[Asker]

But he’s cute

[mommymommymommy]

doesn't matter. theyre scams hun, i guarantee it

[Asker]

Do you mean they’re dishonest about who they are?

[mommymommymommy]

Yeah

[Asker]

He keeps posting on Snapchat though with his face and all he seems legit

[Erron_Black]

Maybe he didn't like where he was from.

[Asker]

Looool

[Erron_Black]

u dont use snap? :D :D

[Asker]

I don’t

[MementoMori777]

no idea

[Asker]

Aren’t you a guy 😂 don’t you get each other lol

[MementoMori777]

no i dont play games, im a very straight forward person if you haven't noticed ha

[Asker]

I don’t know if it’s even games lol

[KostasKouvalis]

Everyone knows that app is for nudes😂

[KostasKouvalis]

Why would he be on a dating site if he's taken?

[Asker]

I’d love to ask a lot of guys that question

[KostasKouvalis]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[KostasKouvalis]

There was a girl who went on "Dating Naked" and they accidentally showed her uncensored pussy and she said she became a laughing stock in her family and lost her boyfriend.

Everyone's initial thought was, "I think you already lost your boyfriend when you went on a nude dating show"🤣

[Asker]

Loooool I don’t understand people like that. They just have too much time on their hands.

[KostasKouvalis]

Or they just want attention

[Asker]

Probably yeah

[Jennz6]

I don’t get it either