Guys, if a girl had your attention for SO long... what makes you move on & forget her?

[Anonymous]

[hahahmm]

When another woman comes along who doesn't play games, treats him with respect & looks better... it's a wrap. He will forget all about you. Let me give you an analogy. Imagine if you wanted to eat in a certain restaurant really bad but every time you went there the staff was cold to you & said they didn't have enough seats... even tho you see the restaurant is empty. Then a new restaurant opens up next door & the staff is happy, friendly, begging you to have a seat. It's like that.

[ProbablyClueless]

Sometimes women just reach a point in my mind where they've made themselves more trouble than they're worth.

[Anonymous]

Hopefully somebody else. I'm still stuck on one girl from 2016.

[Asker]

Hmmm. I'm not sure what to say to that. There's one crazy stalker guy I know and another guy whose very sweet
Which one are you?

[Asker]

Whenshe did make a move you most likely rejected her
There's no way 20 years go by and you're stuck on a girl. You most likely have a partner which isn't cool.

[Opinion Owner]

Probably a combination of both depending on her perspective. I did accidently reject and ignore her. I didn't realize until a year later, and I know I messed really bad. I also don't currently have a partner, so its cool.

[Asker]

Not sure if you are a troll or series. Probably a combination of both. I'll suggest you to probably move on as you've never made another move or set a ton of seriousness that you'd like to approach her in a mature way. Tell her how insecure you were or consistently used GAG to keep misunderstanding things instead of approaching her like I said. I'm sorry this happened to you and I hope you find peace love

[Asker]

Serious*

[Asker]

Excuse my harsh tone but you remind me of a guy not too nice to me. It was consistent bickering and never anything serious on his end. Ego boost. And I'm sure you're the same. Just move on

[Opinion Owner]

Unfortunately, I'm serious and real. I wish I could move on, but I apparently cannot. I was way too anxious to ever approach her in person, despite a plethora of ideal opportunities.

[Opinion Owner]

By the time I did make a move, it was too late.

[Asker]

Well that really sucks I hope you are able to heal and feel better. Maybe it wasn't meant to be.

[Asker]

I'm sorry for how I treated you I was scared and nervous. But we gotta take it as a learning experience and get better for the people who are worth it to us... who won't hurt us and play mind games. Take care😘

[Asker]

I'm not even sure who you are. Again probably a troll. But you arnt trying to un anon so we can chat.

[Opinion Owner]

Its okay. You can message my other account if you want.

[BigIdiot]

Here

[Asker]

@BigIdiot u followed you

[Asker]

I did

[Asker]

Can you follow me back

[Opinion Owner]

Unblock me. I'm driving rn not ignoring you.

[Asker]

Ur not blocked but take your time. Don't want you to text and drive.

[Asker]

Answer your other account

[Opinion Owner]

I tried and I cannot.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't use the app. I use the web browser, and I don't get notifications until I log in.

[Asker]

I'm tired of talking to myself take care

[Asker]

My bad I thought you were done talking to me

[Asker]

I dont mean to not talk to you I figure you are done talking to me

[Opinion Owner]

Why?

[Asker]

I don't know you tell me

[Opinion Owner]

You are making it very hard to message you.

[Asker]

You can message me

[Asker]

It's like you're never on. You must have a busy life. Maybe a concert tohnight? Lol

[Opinion Owner]

I will tomorrow. Very tired.

[Opinion Owner]

The exact opposite. I have never even been to a concert.

[Asker]

That's lame ok have a good night

[Asker]

Hey.

[Opinion Owner]

Hello?

[Asker]

Why did you stop messaging me. We need to talk

[Asker]

Wow okay

[WanderingLoveWizard]

She gets a boyfriend

[Anonymous]

Her ugly personality.

[Asker]

What makes a personality ugly?

[Opinion Owner]

When she's very self centered, narcissist, opportunist. Or sometimes bitch, a lot of guys don't like that.

[Asker]

I see...

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, and when her whole presence in his life was time consuming and negative.

[Asker]

O damn.🪦

[Opinion Owner]

haha

[Asker]

How do you break up with her? Just ghost?

[Opinion Owner]

Why are you interested?

[Asker]

What do you mean? Interested in knowing? Yes

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I probably had a relationship or two like that or know someone who has. But I am actually responding according to your matter. So if you want to have more specific answer as to why he ghosted you or dumped you, I am gonna have to know how did you break up.
And then we can talk about similar stories 🙃

[Asker]

Lol I don't know why he did...
I'm now fat so that could be why or my "ugly" personality.

[Asker]

We were never dating. But he always watched me... now he's gone ghost now that I'm realizing he was into into me... but maybe I'm not all that I think I am