What does it mean when a guy says you are 'soft'. What does it mean to be soft?

[loveisgreat]

What does it mean when a guy says you are 'soft'. What does it mean to be soft?

[piblo99]

this could be referring to personality meaning you are a kind, gentle, generous person! like maybe if you see a homeless person and you give them money they might say "wow you're so soft". or it could even be a more negative thing meaning like... you let people use you as a doormat and walk all over you i suppose.

or he might mean physically like you look like you have soft skin. maybe you have soft looking cheeks or a soft tummy? i tell my girlfriend "wow you look so soft" all the time, usually i'm meaning i want to rest my head on her because she looks comfy.

[nolabels]

There are certain different textures of skin that are smoother than others. Additionally, the presence of a woman's sub-cutaneous fat layer feels vastly different among various women.

In the case of skin, I'd say that "soft" is a good synonym for the word smooth.

When I use the term "soft" in regard to a woman's physicality, it's a combination of the two. The skin surface itself, and the "give" that it has to a man's loving caress.

Then you have the softness of a woman's mannerisms, her way of being a woman.

[WhitneySnow]

Could be good or bad. I’m not sure exactly what this guy means.

[Boomchakalaca]

Complete opposite when they say it to other guys 🙌🏼

[Leapfrog00]

Your personality is soft. You are warm and kindhearted to everyone. You are sensitive and easily hurt, but it doesn't mean you are weak. You love everyone, no matter how bad they treat you, and you're authentic.

Your inner beauty shines. You make anyone feel welcome in your arms and make them feel loved, and they always feel safe with you. These are good qualities to have. Anyone would be lucky to be with you.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

gentle, mild, warm-hearted, or compassionate: a soft, grandmotherly woman. smooth, soothing, or ingratiating: soft words. not harsh or severe, as a penalty or demand. responsive or sympathetic to the feelings, emotions, needs, etc., of others; tender-hearted. sentimental or flowery, as language: soft, meaningless talk.

[exitseven]

There are a few different things it could mean. You might be overly compassionate or you are extremely out of shape. You also could be somewhat lacking mental clarity (crazy).

[ProbablyClueless]

Depends on the context, but it usually means that you're tender-hearted and feel emotions strongly.

[RavVid]

It could be your body is soft or it could be soft emotionally e. g sensitive

[AngryCarl2]

Soft is a Northern England expression meaning stupid. It's also a Southern England expression meaning sentimental.

[CantMissIt]

It's means your skin is so soft and smooth. Guys love that.

[Nikki1989]

Soft usually means kind-hearted or easily moved with emotions.

[Shy_Steve]

It means you let People walk over you so to speak and he wants to see you stand up for yourself a bit more.

[Tomisworthless]

Same as when a woman calls a guy soft or weak

[Anonymous]

No clue. I don't know if he's referring to physically or emotionally.

[AnoAnon57785]

soft is weak.
or soft just means soft. like physically, your skin or body.

[Lliam]

Girl's bodies are soft and squeezable.

[socially_confused]

It means sensitive, or easy to maniputate.

[Exterminatore]

Why are you the only woman thus far that seems to understand what these means?

I guess these other gals have never heard the expression: “softer than baby shit” to refer to a weak person.

Many of them are saying it means feminine or tender hearted. Even a few guys are. Interesting terminology these people are using. Where are these people getting this from?

As a guy if I call anyone soft it means they are mentally, emotionally, or physically weak or all 3 without exception.

Calling someone feminine means possessing the opposite of male traits. Calling someone tender hearted does not connote weakness but rather a empathy. Calling someone sensitive is very closely related to calling them soft, but can be used not to convey weakness if referring to a female and if referring to a male always is synonymous with weakness.

WTF is the matter with people?

[sheikalana]

Means you're feminine. It's a nice compliment.

[Reem12345reem]

maybe he means your feminine?

[Exterminatore]

It means you are weak. As almost all women are.

[Akam93]

To nice or to kind. Or a pushover.

[Blueeyes81]

Bleeding heart

[zebronics]

Maybe easygoing or kind hearted 🌱