Does he really want to be here?

[Anonymous]

So my baby daddy is calling our unborn child baggage…after doing nothing to prevent my pregnancy and also him wanting to get me pregnant…he’s complaining about having to save money to take care of the child but he’s also planning a trip to Canada to visit a girl he use to be involved with and go shopping together…. he swears it’s not like that and he wants to be in the child’s life…. I don’t know what to think anymore

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I told him to leave me alone and he told me I’m gonna fuck the child up

[kylee2437]

My friend also went through and I think it’s unfortunately common for men to do this when their s/o is pregnant. That’s up to you whether or not you want to take the disrespect

[Asker]

I keep telling him he has a way out and we don’t have to communicate and he shows up at my place

[kylee2437]

Yep my friend went through the same thing. It’s pretty much in your hands to cut him off completely so he can understand his own actions

[Asker]

Honestly I don’t think he ever will…he’s a narcissist

[Anonymous]

Sorry but what an AH calling an innocent baby a burden. That alone would make me cut him out of the baby's life.

[Asker]

I’m contemplating it…I was so upset and he wanted to have a baby in the first place…now he wants a paternity test too

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah f him off. What a disgusting pig.

[Opinion Owner]

@Asker if he made a threat like that. I would be contacting the police and taking steps to get custody in place for yourself to protect that innocent baby.

[Asker]

He’s not going on the certificate

[Opinion Owner]

I would still take steps to protect yourself and that baby. I don't know how things work where you are but where I live, if a guy is not put on a birth certificate, he can take the mother to court to prove he is the father and force the mother to put his name on the certificate.

[Cody20]

What a dickhead. Ask him one more time if he wants to stay with the child or visit a friend, if he answers the friend she’s more than a friend and you know what to do sadly.

[Asker]

I asked him and he hasn’t answered

[Cody20]

Do you have Instagram or another social media app it would be easier to talk on?

[Asker]

👀 aren’t you 16

[Cody20]

Yes…?

[Anonymous]

What a pussy of a boy he is. Get him outta your life

[noohair]

Marriage protects children. You got nothing.