Does he really want this?

[Anonymous]

I've been with my partner for 4 years
We are on and off
6 months ago we broke up
He went overseas for abit but will be back here soon

He kept wanting me back but I said no

I actually found out I was pregnant late so I told my partner I was pregnant
He was more determined to be with me

I went into labour few weeks ago
Now we have a daughter

We got into argument about something
Then he said:
“Im sick of your shit”
“We need to talk when I get back”
“I want to start a family with u”
“I love u”

Blah..

If he's so sick of my shit, then why is he saying he want a family with me?

Yea

No

[Billlewis]

So, if I understand you correctly, you're pregnant by one of your boyfriends, and your male partner is excited by the idea of having a family with you, including your new baby, which was sired by the boyfriend. Is that correct?

[Asker]

Its the same guy lol

[Billlewis]

I see. May I ask how old he is? He may just be nervous about becoming a father.

[Asker]

he's 33

Why do u think he’s nervous?

[OlderAndWiser]

Why does it matter what HE wants? Why would you want to return to a life of drama?

[LazerBean]

No, he clearly never really did and just stayed with you out of some sort of moral obligation because you were pregnant. Should have left him years ago.

[Asker]

He didn't know I was pregnant.. he still wanted me back
And thats when I told him the truth

[LazerBean]

And how many times have you two broken up after he's supposed wanted you back in the past? It sounds like he went on vacation to get some foreign sex and then got back with you for local sex.

[Asker]

He went overseas to see his sick grandma who raised him…

[LazerBean]

And you think he didn't run around? Girl.

[Anonymous]

He's confused?