Does he want more?

[Anonymous]

My coworker and I have been talking almost everyday. He listens to me and knows I am going through a divorce and he encouraged it. Now that It’s final and I have expressed that I have feelings for him, he is distancing himself. He’s not texting me with playful things. He’s not being mean he’s just not the same. He keeps our conversations short and to the point. My birthday is in a couple of days and he paid for my hair and my nails and said if needed money for anything else just to ask. I am having a party at my house with other coworkers and I’m worried about the way he’s going to act. He has not talked about the way he feels but he shows me he cares. Is that all it is… is he just a friend who cares and I’m looking deeper into something that’s not there because I want to be with him?

[SueShe]

Wow, you are actually still married and already thinking of fornicating with someone else. That makes me wonder what the reasons for the divorce are.

Well, it seems that he has achieved what he wanted. To free you from a husband and to be seen as a home wrecker. Now that he has done what he wanted, you have lost his interest and now that he can get into your pants without any bad feeling, he is taking his distance, knowing that the "obstacle" has been removed.

He is definitely going to give you a reputation with the coworkers as it will be difficult to keep it a secret.

He will care for as long as you are a novelty to him. After that, you are no longer something new...

[EmmaMary]

Just ask/beg him to give you a damn good fucking... Simples.

[moneymagnet24]

Oh god 🤣🤣🤌

[Asker]

That’s the other issue he’s still a virgin.

[EmmaMary]

Well if you're really in the 36 - 45 age bracket as stated in your profile... Just how old is this so - called "virgin"?

[Asker]

He’s 31 and I’m 40

[EmmaMary]

Thank you so much for the MHO.

[moneymagnet24]

But the question is why you let him paid for uoue hair n nails? 😂

[Asker]

It’s my birthday and he wanted to do that for me. He’s not trying to get in my pants even though he knows he can. I just don’t know if he really cares about me for is doing this out of pitty

[Nikki1989]

Try actually talking to him. Texting doesn't count.

[Asker]

I told him how I felt in person and he just changes the subject and will make jokes. I’m just worried I might do something at the party to make him feel uncomfortable, not intentionally but people see how I change when he’s around