Why do guys ghost girls they care for and do they regret it?

[GirlwithaQ]

Why do they sometimes come back just to do it again?

[MrOracle]

In most cases, they didn't actually care for her. In some cases, they did, but either his life got out of control somehow or she became too much to handle (ever-increasing need for attention or rising expectations) and so he ghosted so he wouldn't have to deal with it.

In the vast majority of cases, this is a symptom of the girl not understanding that most single men will do almost anything to get sex, and that, as the gatekeeper of sex, it's the woman's job to keep her gate and thus to vet potential partners and to not choose casual sex if there's even the tiniest chance that she might eventually want something more - because if you start off having casual sex with a guy, that's all you will EVER be to him. Too many girls seem to think that casual sex is a stop along the path towards a relationship, but that couldn't be any less true. If you were standing in Kansas (the middle of the US), imagine casual sex being in California (the west coast) and a relationship being in New York (the east coast). Every step you take towards California moves you FURTHER AWAY from New York, not closer.

[Anonymous]

For a number of reasons. Maybe he never really cared about her. Maybe he did to a point, maybe he only cared about her sexually. Maybe he was hitting up some other bush then got what he wanted or didn’t get what he wanted so he came back. A lot of us men tend to do this because you women let us come back. Instead of saying no, we’re done, you left me w no explanation, you let us come back. Even if he cheated on her you still let them come back. I know 4 girls who, although I’m w someone, have been for a long time, would give me a blowjob if I called them up.

[YourExLover69]

I have never ghosted any girl in my life but in fact they have ghosted me without any explanation or reasons. Also some cheated on too.

I'm sincere and honest from my side. I won't ghost any girl but I expect efforts from her side too. I expect her to initiate things/conversations/efforts too equally.

[ProbablyClueless]

People who are broken inside have a tough time dealing with emotions and vulnerability.

[BarryLiverstone]

Because we get overwhelmed and try to cut out bad habits

[GirlwithaQ]

Making the girl the bad habit?

[BarryLiverstone]

Could be. Are you in a relationship with him?

[Raaj4you]

Bcoz some guys lose interest in a girl quickly and move to another attractive girl. Some guys regret it and some don't.

[Wise4myage]

Some guys and girls just like to play games.

[justabuddy]

Sounds like this guy you are seeing is a bit of a head case. With you and himself. Might be best to cut him lose or the head games will continue.

[Sparkie460]

They are player's that are rude