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He tried being my friend after many years of not talking.
But he lied to me, he continuously manipulated me, I believed he was something he wasn't, he disrespected my boundaries, he gave me silent treatment when he didn't get his way, he got furiously angry at me and was speeding when I didn't do what he wanted, he was possessive... And I just felt used by him.
So he adds me as a friend on socials and I say you never acted like a friend to me, you acted like I was your enemy..
Then proceeded to say that i feel disgusted when I think about him, he was a lesson I never want to revisit and that he's dead to me.
Have you ever said anything like this to anyone? I honestly feel so much better, that this in a way was the final closure he never gave me. He used me then walked out the door like i meant nothing to him.
No communication, nothing. Then all of a sudden comes back Let's be friends.
Nah.
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so what's your questions?
On a side note I can see why he treated you like nothing. If that's how you want to speak to Barry in the opinions here, you come across as a complete and utter bitch attacking him for no reason just because he wrote sure. Talk about a severe overreaction. Get some fucking help and stop attacking people and If you are going to come here at least ask a damn question because your post doesn't have any question in it.
Stop interacting with your ex
he reached out to me
Don't respond
Sure
Bro you're 24 you haven't lived enough years to understand my situation
Hurt much?
Get off this page and start answering questions with sincere advice. A guy with 15% MHO, is telling how useless you are. I'm explaining my situation for true advice and you just respond with "sure" what a complete and utter wxnker.
You asked anon. Then started insulting me. Why does my 15% matter to you?
It doesn't matter if one asked anonymously. Lots of people do to ask for advice. And of course I'm telling you off because you're completely disregarding my question. I would rather my question be left in "no opinions" than you answer it with "sure" I typed up a question I needed an answer to and you completely disregarded it. My 15% matters to me because it's telling how useless your advice is and people like you shouldn't exist on here.
Your 15%* Anyways, whatever. you're a wxnker probably irl.
So what should I do? Yes I am a wanker
You should get another hobby other than being on here. You lack the empathy and consideration of others so why waste time on a site that's not in favour of you. I asked for the advice and here we are talking about how I can help you... Are you a narcissist or something
After re-reading your question a third time I still don’t know what you are asking tbh
You know what. My advice to my situation is sound enough. Wow, I am a really good influencer.
Nope. If you look at my answers I actually engage with people on here and often they thank me for helping
Why should I give the time to look at your answers when you responded to mine with "sure"
My question is basically is it wrong that I told my ex he's dead to me.
I kinda feel bad but also feel healed too. Maybe I need therapy lol.
And my answer was sure. You telling him that he’s dead to you is wrong. However you will not hear my advice now
Yes you need therapy
Also by you asking this anon you lack accountability. You could ask this same question next week right?
to be honest, how he treated me... I don't believe what I said was wrong considering all the trauma he put me through
I don't ask the same questions twice
probably do need therapy. but you probably do too.
Yep I have had therapy tbh
Telling someone that they are dead is wrong, even if it’s based on your trauma