He told me that his female friends want him and they don' t care if he has a girlfriend ( me). Can it be true or he is the one wanting them?

[Anonymous]

[_Maya_]

I mean yeah anything can be true. Is it though? No idea. Do you notice that sort of behavior from them around him? I am only guessing that you have seen some of them around him being his girlfriend and all. Of course they could change their behavior when you are around. Did your boyfriend come off braggy when he was telling you this or was it more of a courtesy of letting you know. If he came off braggy in any way that could be a sign. If you have no reason not to trust him then I am sure he will stay true to you.

[BasedBaeBecca]

It is possible that his female friends are interested in him and are trying to make him leave you, or it is possible that he is exaggerating or even lying about their interest in him (to either manipulate or test you).

If your boyfriend seems genuinely bothered or uncomfortable with the female attention, then it might be true that some of his friends are interested in him and you should talk to him about it and ask him to set boundaries with them.

However, if he seems proud and overly happy about other girls admiring him, then it is most likely that he wants those other girls.

[Asker]

He say that he friendzoned them and he is ok with being friends with them

[BoopBoopBeep]

It CAN be true, sure. Or he could be trying to bang all of them. Or he could want them and they friendzoned him a long time ago. Lots of things are POSSIBLE here, but only you can discern which is probable.

[slatyb]

That's an odd thing to say and it's not n8ce. What was his point? That you should be lucky to be with him?

[exitseven]

It could be true that at least one of them wants him Frienships with the opposite sex can be complicated and confusing things and sometimes you may feel that what you have is more than a friendship

[Stacey55666]

I worked with a guy who was a known cheater. I asked him if he took his wedding ring off when he went to the clubs.

His answer: “Fuck no! That’s what attracts the ladies.” lol

I’m not a psychologist, but I think it’s a sign of endorsement. He passed the test and is most likely not a serial killer.

I understand this lady’s worries, but I really do think that “taken” men have a certain allure about them.

[exitseven]

@Stacey55666 I was never what you would call popular with the ladies. I had a few girlfriends before I got married but not as much as other guys I knew. After I got married I was asked out by 3 different girls. One was really hot ans she tracked me down from a credit card receipt from a company gas card I had. She called me at work and invited me to a party at her place. She was really hot and it was a real shame I was married because I had to turn her down, and then I had to find another gas station to go to

[Stacey55666]

I hope the lady who wrote this listens to what you just said, because it's just a normal thing. Women wants what she has. It's wrong and it's bad, but they don't care. I believe that guys adhere to code and women don't. I think this dates back to the caveman days. Men didn't need women, but women needed men. The article I read, talked about how women hold all the cards when it comes to sex. It's true, because men handed them the entire deck of cards. lol
I've tried to tell guys to stop handing over the cards, but they think that's their only chance.

I had a dear friend who was a smooth golf pro. He attracted girls like a magnet. They would approach him and ask him to buy them drinks. He laughed at them.

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They were so confused by that.

[genericname85]

well as long as he keeps his hands of this other girl and does not allow her to touch him in sexual ways, that is completely irrelevant.

[Fanfare690]

He's a player and he's cheating dump him