Is it bad for a 34 year old guy to pursue me at 23?

[Anonymous]

[DaveJord]

I would say absolutely not but maybe. It all depends on what your gut is telling you. But if you think 34 is too old for you at 23 I would say you are wrong.

Regardless of this guy's age the risks are essentially the same as they would be with a 24 or 26 year old. The only plus side for you is that at 34 he's a little more mature and experienced. Now again depending on the man that can be a good thing or that can be a bad thing. It all depends on what your gut is telling you.

[Anonymous]

na.. You're over 18. It's legal. You'll find that no matter the age people are really just all kids. Some kids have older bodies. You come to realize this eventually. Those people that you thought knew it all because they were older... Well guess what they don't know as much as you think. Otherwise you'd see it in their results and even then they might not know why they are getting the results they are. They cannot actually teach it to others. They can give the knowledge but they cannot teach it. That is a deep statement.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

No, my ex-girlfriend was age 18, and I was age 35, but she lost my class-ring plus she was planning to break up with me plus she was always in and out of the mental health ward, so it ended. You shouldn't date a person with mental illnesses because there are chances are things won't work out for the two of you. I'm also battling my own mental health illnesses.

[Anonymous]

Only if you feel it is. A lot of women like dating older men because they say we’re more mature than we are in our 20’s. They also say women mature quicker than men so if that’s true than his maturity level should match up w his. You never know, so try it if you’re ok w it. You concerned about what others would think because of the age gap?

[ProbablyClueless]

It's not bad unless you feel like your boundaries are being violated.

[msc545]

No, what is bad is that you would ask this question.

[Staximus]

If he's not a scumbag and you think he will make your life better and not worse, then it's ok

[Grovermint]

Not at all. A lot of couples are ten years apart. You're both adults.

[riverrat3]

If you are ok with it, why should it bother anyone else

[rachel776]

i'm 19 and my boyfriend is 33

[Anonymous]

Do what u like who cares about others opinions

[TallAnon]

No, adults can flirt with eachother.

[Anonymous]

You're both adults.

[In_Trance]

No it isn't

[Jmmmfi4]

Nope