She's 12 1/2 years younger than me. I almost always prefer older women, but I don't know.. I was interested in her... although maybe she thinks I am too old for her.
If you want a stable relationship, you can’t punch above your level. My grandpa married a very rich woman who was 20 years old and very beautiful but my grandpa studied at a school that is over 50 times more difficult to get into than Harvard and made over twice as much as the average person in his very rich town in a age where almost everyone made the same amount of money. You can chase a girl who is more young and physically attractive then you, but can you back it up with your own credentials?
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It is not wrong but it may be unwise or for the wrong reasons. However every situation is different so I wouldn't judge based only on the ages, my guess is that it would prob. not work out in the long run but I could be wrong. JMO!
It's never wrong to let someone know you are interested in them. Their reaction will let you know if you should continue though.
If you two are compatible, and want to date each other, do it. You're consenting adults.
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Yes it is. Usually men that stoop this low in age have some kind of immaturity issue that women their age do not prefer/condone.
I think it's cringe when someone is specifically looking for a huge age gap relationship. That goes both ways for women and men but if you just happen to like the person where the age gap is sizeable then I think it's fine to date them for the most part.
Absolutely nothing with it at all.
You are expressing a potential preference or opinion. There are some that will attempt to bash you for having an opinion or preference other than their own. Let them wallow in their own hate.
As long as the two of you are consenting adults and truly into each other, go for it.
Yes you are to old for her. Date someone your own age or don't date at all if you are that immature. Men who think this shit is okay need to go to therapy and work on themselves before they ruin a young woman's life.
Wrong? Not necessarily; it's just odd. What is the basis of your connection with this young woman? Like, what's the thing that you look at and say "I want to spend time around this girl because _____"?
Maybe? What is she doing with her life now? What do you imagine would happen if she formed a relationship with you? The worst thing you can do is derail her plans before she met you.
Go for it king! your in your prime and she is in hers. women our age hit the wall, they are fat, blown out, or single moms. Dont settle for a lesser woman just because we reach our dating market peak later in life.
Don't "pursue"... make your intent known. If she's not receptive move along to the millions of others who are.
No it is fine.. but it might not work out in the long run because you will always be in different places in your lives..
No, nothing wrong with that. Both adults and she can decide for herself if she wants to be with you.
I would even think it would be better for younger women to date older men as younger guys are really immature and tend to just use women.You know 12 years is quite sustainable. Go ahead it's not like she is a minor. and since your 30 something your not old at all and she won't think your old either.
Depends on your motive. If she's an old soul and you are happy together then why not?
If you notice an age difference then I think you are doing it for the wrong reasons
I wouldn't date someone that much younger than me.
I personally think you’re too old for her, but my thoughts have never stopped peoples actions
No its not wrong. You are both adults. Plus most men prefer women that are younger/the same age as them (NOT KIDS) though.
Nope. Not at all. If she’s mature and the feelings are mutual, go for it! 😌
She's old enough to make her own choice. Ask her out, if she says no then back off
No, not if she appears interested, but if she thinks you're too old then probably better to look elsewhere otherwise it gets stalker-ish.
It's not wrong per se. But the odds of lengthy, successful relationship are not with you when you get into gaps larger than 9 years. Good luck man!
Not wrong at all, she is an adult and the man should be older.
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