Is it a red flag if a guy drunk texts you?

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my guy friend won’t text me when he is drinking i think that’s kind of cute because who likes to be drunk texted

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Not necessarily , sometimes alcohol helps people express themselves better than when they are sober , Now if he is drunk as shit and not making much sense to you , then you are best to not fall
For the shit that comes out of his mouth , But if he is just buzzed and a little fucked up , he is more than likely being honest with you , some people have a hard time expressing themselves when they are sober , why most people go to bars and clubs to mingle and to pretty much meet someone to hook up with or to continue dating etc. The truth is we really don’t know what someone’s true intentions are when we
Meet someone new , because we aren’t mind readers , so it’s always a 50/50 chance if someone is honestly on the same page as you are. or not So if you like this guy even though he drunk texts you , be honest with him and tell him to take you on a date sober and see how he treats you when he is sober, and ask him why he only contacts you when he is boozed up , he will more than likely tell you the truth as to why he does that. Now if he doesn’t follow through with taking you on a date sober then that’s you answer that he just wants to have sex with you and nothing more , but if he does follow through with taking you on a date sober then more than likely he likes you more than just a piece of ass. Me personally likes to drink on occasion and to me it relaxes me and makes me feel happy , I don’t like getting completely drunk but if I am nicely buzzed and feeling good I become more outgoing and fun to be around because I tend to smile more and not really dwell on the negatives and stress in my life. for the most part. I tend to open up more about myself and socialize more , I tend to get more girls’ interested in me when they see me just having fun and not dwelling over negative shit , I guess it helps boost my confidence in a sense I am not much of a judge mental person , I treat people the same way I want to be treated when I am out in public whether I am drinking or not , But if I am drinking in public at party’s, concerts , bars , clubs etc I am just looking to have a good time , so having some beers in me , puts me in that mindset to just have fun and mingle and not really dwell on the negatives in my life , basically the Fuck it attitude , so if I see a girl that I am attracted to and think she is absolutely beautiful , I go for it and try to start up a conversation with her , I do the same when I am sober as well , but to me it’s easier to do when I have some beer in me lol Now if I am drunk as shit and trying to get a girl interested in me , I more than likely not going to remember much of the night , so she is best to stay away from me , if I am drunk as shit , but sometimes she doesn’t and then I wake up next to her in bed not knowing what the fuck happened last night So that’s why I don’t like getting drunk as shit lol I regretted most of them afterwards lol so I pretty Much taught myself how to cut myself off from drinking before I get completely fucked up. Also be careful , if this guy drinks every day , then you are probably best to stay away from him , he more than likely is an alcoholic , but if he just drinks on the weekends or on occasions then more than likely you have nothing to worry about

coachTanthony · Accepted Answer

No but it's immature... women need men who are in control unless you're in college or something then anything goes really.

Zatsuma · Accepted Answer

Good news is that he thinks of you as a friend and not anything more, just as you do him.

If he thought more of you than just friends, you would be the first one getting the texts during his tipsy stages

Pinay_ako · Accepted Answer

Drunk texts spill the truth. So if he can’t express himself to you when he’s sober, chances are he’s shy to tell you what he really feels. So why don’t you make your move. If you want him

UniquelyBasic · Answer

At least he's still thinking of you when he's intoxicated 🥺 How sweet

jeffend888 · Answer

If you are in your early 30s and even getting drunk texts from men, let alone thinking it’s cute, you are not a grown up.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

Depends how often, and what they say when they text.

WhereIsMyMind · Answer

I'd imagine it would be a red flag if they only wanted to interact with you when they're drunk, but not willing to give you the time of day when they're sober.

FreyaRed · Answer

Sound like a guy who has a lot problems with himself. I guess he needs a mommy not a woman.

crystalline0909 · Answer

Yes. Why can't a man miss you conciously. He's drunk and probably lonely, horny or bored. You are a source of entertainment and nothing more to him.

Sharkstealth · Answer

I don't drink or do drugs at all so I guess I can text whenever. Sure if you like him although I don't think it should matter when he texts you.

Chevy1_kb · Answer

it's something like William Wallace i want freedom now i have it iam not letting that basterd take me down wich is my ex and to Wallace the asshole English king i will put him down

catarecute · Answer

means he is stupid. the only guy i dated who did that was really nice but i discovered he was stupid (LOW IQ).

Meropatrick · Answer

I think its the worst idea. People tend to get too bold and write things they should not write when they get drunk. But After all u won't know if he texted u while he is drunk as u r not with him in the same room to see

ProbablyClueless · Answer

It's not a red flag unless they refuse to text you when they are sober

devilish-cutie · Answer

not at all, drunk texting is sweet... it can only be a red flag if drinking is a red flag to you

Summeroflove · Answer

You’re not making much sense. It depends what I’m being texted and our rapport

Nikki1989 · Answer

Anyone that uses texts as an attempt to communicate is a red flag.

Raaj4you · Answer

No, it's not. Whenever a drunk man talks, he tells the truth.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Its a red flag if they drink alcohol at all.

Anonymous · Answer

personally, i think it's a red flag when anyone gets drunk. but that's just me

jimmy2 · Answer

Yes mostly like he will become a problem drinker or worse The nest you can expect in the relationship is a Toxic one

johnnyknows · Answer

like all my psychiatrists say to me when i ask them something.. IT CAN BE

Wise4myage · Answer

No that is not a red flag.

sheikalana · Answer

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