My boyfriend was teasing me and I joked that I'll kick his balls. He seems to like it and treats me with so much care. Should I ask him?

[Anonymous]

He brings in more situations so I'd say stuff like and you're gonna get your eggs cracked etc. He cuddles more and makes me feel really nice after these events. Should I ask him why deliberately wants puts me in similar situation to say stuff like that?

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He seems to have a fetish. He likes hearing how vulnerable his balls are and how I can get them with ease. As assumed he loves all the verbal threats. Thanks guys

[Anonymous]

If he likes the threat of being kicked in the balls, you could spar with him 🥊 or have him join a martial arts class that doesn’t allow cups, but does allow full contact kicks to the balls. I train at such a class where there is always that threat and possibility, especially when sparring with girls! Maybe that’s something he would like to try.

[Asker]

He might like it but I'd rather kick him. Don't want him to go somewhere to get satisfied with his sexual kinks risking his manhood. If he really wants to be kicked, I'll at least make sure he's intact.

[Opinion Owner]

Well I suppose you could still spar with him yourself and go for kicks to his balls, or find out if there are different ways he would like to experience this. You’re right that in a competitive class like mine the girls will always kick their absolute hardest to his balls given the chance - this happens to me often! At least with you doing it there’s some element of control, so give him what he wants I guess, and enjoy it.

[Unit1]

He might derive a masochistic satisfaction from it. He may be into BDSM on the receiving end. Ask him.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he likes it. Just don't make the assumption that there's more to it than that and actually try to kick him there.

[Guyishere23]

Maybe he wants you to kick his balls. Dominatrix. Maybe he wants you to completely dominate him but that is not a easy task you would have to make the right choices for you both

[Anonymous]

You know one of you will end up getting hurt really badly if you do something like that

[spartan55]

Stop saying that, idiot.

[Guyishere23]

Some people into it. Haven't you watched porn before ha

[spartan55]

Yeah, I'm aware junior.

[CallmeTheKnight]

That boy ain’t right

[Guyishere23]

A lot of weird people watch porn

[CallmeTheKnight]

Exactly weird people