Should I seek therapy for the small creepy things I am doing to my superior at the workplace?

[Anonymous]

I tried to find a picture of him on google that best matches him but that isn’t him, obviously.

Anyway, I had developed a huge crush on my superior at work and I have put my tongue inside his coffee before giving it to him, I have shook his hand after playing with myself in the bathroom without washing my hand intentionally. I knew he would shake my hand at the end of the day since it was Friday. He is always in a more touchy mood on fridays so I shook his hand after putting my hand on my private area.
I have also done minor things from stalking on instagram, Snapchat and etc. I am on his social media all day. I am obsessed with him. I think about him from the moment I wake up.

Don’t ask me to try to get with him. He doesn’t like me.

The most disturbing thing I have done was probably the hand shake after playing with myself.

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Can I get fired for telling my therapists this?

[provokeesmokee]

You need to talk to your therapist about this before it gets worse.

If you don't talk to someone professionally and get help, your sexual harassment and assaults on this poor man will only escalate.

Stop, distance, and get help. What you're doing is disgusting, wrong, and it's sexual assault.

[Asker]

How is it sexual assault?

[BlackBeauty90]

@Asker - touching yourself & shaking his hand is sexual harassment & could be considered sexual assault in some ways by forcing your supervisor to engage in sexually motivated conduct in which he is unaware of and which he would refuse to partake in if he was aware.

Not only is it worth being fired for but if you're in America you deserve to be charged AND sued for your disgusting behavior.

[BlackBeauty90]

Well if you happen to have a saliva based disease such as HIV/AIDS and he caught it through your spittle in his coffee cup AND could prove it --- he would have every right to sue you to such extent your great-grandchildren would still be paying for it.

As for touching yourself & shaking his hand that's disgusting AND a form of sexual harassment which, if he knew & could prove it, would get you fired AND potentially sued for sexual harassment.

[exitseven]

That is pretty sick. You recognize that what you are doing is bizarre so at least there is that. Maybe just stop acting like a stalker and a crazy person. Eventually this behavior will escalate and you will get fired or maybe worse.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Wow you are a train wreck and an arrest warrant waiting to happen. Get help or get a defense attorney. You'll need one or the other before long.

[Little_Bumblebee]

You should seek therapy.

I don't believe you would get fired for telling a therapist as they have confidentiality, .


But girl, this is really creepy.

[Asker]

Do you think I can be fixed

[Little_Bumblebee]

If you are serious about working on it

[Lokiion]

Ew… I usually say therapy doesn’t do anything but this might just be an exception

[Sunnybeach123]

Omg that's so hot. I got hard from reading what you did.

[Anonymous]

LMAOO this is hilarious

[Asker]

Do you think this isn’t a big deal? I’m not as creepy as I make myself believe?

[provokeesmokee]

You're creepier than you think you are, girl. Get some help, ASAP. You will need to work hard to rehab yourself, but you owe it to yourself and your victims to get mentally healthy and learn to cope.