He doesn’t want to hang out with me. Should I tell him how I feel?

[Anonymous]

This guy I’m seeing came to my house two weeks ago and started telling me how busy he’s going to be. He’s going to train for marathon, focus on work, volunteering etc

What I got from it was that he’s busy and has no time for me.
Yet he keeps asking what I’m doing over the weekend. When I tell him he says

you should do it!

He never says we could do something together.
I’m upset he’s acting this way and swore I will not ask him out again.
Should I tell him this or wait and see what he says?

[overthinker85]

I think it’s always better to communicate. Maybe that’s what he was trying to do when he told you about his marathon plans etc. Maybe he doesn’t realise you have other expectations in this relationship. Have you tried to combine the needs? For example if he trains for a marathon, you could maybe go for a run together, or a refreshing swim after that? Or maybe if you try this and see that he does not like doing things together, you can work out for yourself if you can adapt to that or if it is not the kind of relationship you want. Good luck!