Why do some men try to rush the talking stage?

[strawberrybaby3]

I don’t mean rushing for sex, but just wants to meet up too quick, etc.

[Anonymous]

Could be a lot of reasons. Maybe he’s just trying to rush it to get to the sex part of it right away if things work out. Maybe he’s very excited to meet you. Nothing wrong w that. Maybe he’s desperate which doesn’t say a lot about you if he’s desperate. Maybe he just wants to go out, have fun. Talking online or through text is a waste of damn time. Doesn’t really give a true indication of who you are as a person. I’d rather go out, have fun, get to know her. Even if things don’t work out maybe make a new friend in the process.

[Finchie40]

Girls’ do this as well , best way to explain this is because most people in general that truly want something or want someone, they rush it , thinking they will miss their window of opportunity, thinking someone or something else will beat tthem to it , it’s an insecurity most people have within themselves of wanting something that isn’t theirs

[Adventurer23]

Dude probably wants to meet up too quickly for sex. lol

In all seriousness, regardless of if it's on a date or not, I'd be wary of any guy who doesn't show much interest in talking and getting to know you. If a guy does though, and is genuine about it, it shows he actually cares about you and actually wants to get to know you and your other qualities as a person; that he has real substance and isn't just in it for your looks and/or for sex.

But if a guy doesn't show much interest in getting to know you and it's all rushed, you need to stop and ask yourself why that is. Someone who doesn't care enough to chat and get to know you better isn't worth your time. At best you'll just wind up feeling unvalued and empty. Let him be someone else's heartache.

[Redstang88]

Because you never really know someone through a phone. The point is to spend some time together and see if you get along

Plus we know every woman online dating has 100 guys fighting for her attention, we’re trying to set ourselves apart from the crowd

[Summeroflove]

If something doesn’t feel right and irs too fast. Communicate. If they don’t respect your boundaries sometimes you have to move on. Things should move at a natural pace comfortable for both of you. If it doesn’t maybe you’re not compatible.

[ProbablyClueless]

Because talking online/remotely is stale. It's dull, inconsistent, prone to miscommunication. Plus, every guy has dozens of personal experiences with women putting zero effort into conversations, and sometimes, even just fuckin vanishing

[spartan55]

The talking is one the stupidest norms in the current dating culture. Complete waste of time.

[spartan55]

*talking stage

[exitseven]

Dating is an awkward process. He is going at his own speed. The problem is that he is too fast for you.

[TallAnon]

Because we've been through this a 100 times without anything happening, so it's getting boring

[bowenw]

It could be a sign of desperation, or a way of getting to the sex faster.

[Pohjolan]

Well for one thing we want to confirm that we are not communicating with a bot or a guy before getting emotionally attached.

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure what it means to "meet up too quick." Shouldn't you do that REALLY early on?

[LoverOfBooty23]

I would want to with you too so I can’t blame them

[Anonymous]

If I had to guess? Probably to keep her from losing interest.

[Anonymous]

because we dont want to spend 6 months in the talking phase. Its a waste of time.

[Anonymous]

The end goal is sex. All men want is sex.

[SeekerOfTruth007]

That's not entirely correct. i want a friend and common interests, but yeah, I want the sex too.

[In_Trance]

How is meeting up not part of the talking stage?

[Anonymous]

Because they want a consistent sex partner

[Anonymous]

teen bs