What does it exactly mean when he calls you good girl? How to respond it? I didn't get it if he joked or not, but he told me that I wasn't like his previous partners and that I am a good girl :) How would you react?
When a guy refers to a girl as a "good girl," the meaning can vary depending on the context and tone of the conversation.
In some cases, a guy may use the term "good girl" in an affectionate or endearing manner. It's a way of expressing fondness and appreciation, similar to saying "sweetheart" or "dear". "Good girl" can also be used to convey approval or praise for a girl's actions or behavior. For example, if she has done something impressive or helpful, a guy might say, "You're such a good girl," as a compliment. In certain contexts, especially within certain relationships, "good girl" can take on a more controlling or dominant tone. It might be used to reinforce a power dynamic where one person seeks to exert authority over the other. In some instances, "good girl" can have sexual undertones, especially if used in a flirtatious or intimate context. It may be meant to suggest submission or a particular role-play scenario.
It's crucial to pay attention to the context and the relationship between the individuals involved. While "good girl" can be used positively and affectionately, it can also be potentially disrespectful or objectifying if not used with mutual understanding and consent. Communication and mutual respect are key in any interaction to ensure that terms like these are received as intended.
If he said, “You’re a good girl.” As in you’re upstanding and you participate in degeneracy or delinquency, then he’s just stating what he’s observed. Like calling a guy a good guy or a solid dude.
Now, I’d he just said, “Good girl.” As a response to something you did for him—then it’s more of a kink. He likes control and is turned on when you submit to him or show obedience to him. He hopes you are turned on by the same thing. He’s rewarding your obedient and/or submissive behavior because he likes it.
You missed your window. I would have asked exactly that. "Oh"? "And what made those women not good girls"?
Because I could tell you what I think. But I'm not him. I have no idea what he determines to be the hallmark of a "good girl"
Next time don't let such an opportunity pass you by. This is how you find out about how a person thinks.
that would make me cringe. he thinks you’re submissive
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Ask him lol. It depends on when he says it, how; and how it makes you feel.
Depends on when he said it. During sex or just normal everyday talk
You're nice warm understanding and not a stuck up wannabe who does whatever x and YouTube tells you to do
Why are yoi asking goofy questions?
Mostly depends on the setting
more context?
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