Why did he come back after he chose someone else?

[becky444]

Hello all.
I was talking to a guy for several months. We hungout once and went hiking, but we texted a lot and went to bars together a lot. He seemed like he really liked me... we got into one argument, stopped talking, and then he snapchatted me off someone elses phone to add him back onto snapchat. So i did. after a while he started dating another woman. They became an exclusive couple. A couple days ago he snapchatted me out of nowhere. I asked why, he said "we can't be friends?" . He still has the girlfriend. They also went hiking a few days ago. Any thoughts on why he randomly reached out? We were super into each other and then drifted apart.

[RoseySarah]

He wants you as a back up encase this relationship does not work!

Probably had another back up when talking to you before!

Your not just a friend but a girlfriend in waiting to him!

Just block him again if the girlfriend finds out then she will be pissed at you and him for cheating... at least emotionally

[strawberrybaby3]

First of all he’s showing you exactly what kind of person he is by being in a relationship and trying to text you to be “friends”. Why would you want someone like that in your life? No guy just wants to be friends, he wants to sleep with you.

[ManOnFire]

He's trying to look your way again even if he has a girlfriend now. He probably hopes he can sleep with you on the side, or maybe even swing back over to you altogether. He just needs you to take the bait. Are you going to?

[becky444]

I talked to him for a little bit then he didn't reply to my last text, so i just let him be for now

[ManOnFire]

If I were you I would no longer be having any conversations with him anymore.

[Avicenna]

He's either keeping you on the back burner in case things don't work out or he wants to make you a side piece.

[Anonymous]

I stopped reading at Snapchat. Are you really 34?

[becky444]

No im 22 im not sure why it says 34.

[spartan55]

Because you lied about your age, that's why.

[becky444]

Ok well i can't change it sooo

[spartan55]

Why lie about your age?

[becky444]

To remain even more anonymous duh.

[spartan55]

Like anyone is going to figure out who you are on here... no one cares, trust me. So duh yourself.

[spartan55]

He told you why... guess you weren't listening.

[becky444]

We hooked up before why would he just want to be friends?

[spartan55]

He doesn't want to just be friends, he wants some more 🥧 pie.