My boyfriend is actually changing for me. Most men don’t want to put in that effort, but he does. Does that mean he’s my soul mate?

[Hello4242]

[RoseySarah]

Means he is putting effort and he is willing to maybe some day be your soul mate! How are things going what is he changing?

My man changed his clothes for me and now likes mine more then his old one.

Soul mates are hard work and effort all your life they are not magically found!

Sorry ready this as my boyfriend charging for me!

[provokeesmokee]

No, but it does mean he's open to change and working to improve your relationship.

That said, are you meeting him halfway?

[Billlewis]

If we want to please you, we'll do almost anything to make you happy.

[BigDog1989]

It means he's whipped. and that he doesn't respect himself, or you

[Hello4242]

What’s wrong with being whipped? Shouldn’t a man or woman both want to heal and be better people together? Whats the point if the person you’re with doesn’t make you grow?

[dudeinohio]

Trying to change a person will only cause them to resent you later. You either accept a guy how he is or you find someone compatible.

[Hello4242]

I agree with you to a certain degree. I think it depends on what’s changing and why. Im not being demanding about it.

[eagle1951]

you should know that, how would we know anything

[BLP11520]

OK, well he wants to keep you?

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

Change can be bad too u have to be specific

[Hello4242]

Becoming a better person.. he was disrespectful towards woman and about them, and he’s softening a lot.

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

That's a move actually 😅 because girls like to think they're special and impactful... guys make fake issue and let them solve it as it make them feel they're impactful n doing something... tell me if he any thing big or complex like got different job , start investing for further, left his friends something like that which might be impactful

[Hello4242]

He completely changed his communication style.. he’s more patient and kind. I’ve definitely seen a big difference. I know guys tend to put an act on about changing, I’ve seen it before. This is the first and only guy I’ve seen actually put in a lot of effort.

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

If he is putting effort and looks like trying hard like remember stuff and shyt then it 👍👍👍it's good

[AmeerX]

Don't change him too much or it will break.

[spartan55]

Change how?

[Hello4242]

He treated woman like objects and disrespected them and thats slowly starting to change. He told me the “disgusting part of him is dead”

[spartan55]

You must be a hurricane 🌀 in the sack.

[you_asked]

Sounds like you are orally good.