What’s some signs a man is a good leader? Maybe subtle signs?

[Dijntntb]

it seems hard to be found by a man who’s a leader.

[dynamicyandere]

This isn’t super subtle — but if he has other people around him compliment his leadership abilities, that would be a tell.


For example, I’ve had peers, subordinates, and superiors all compliment my leadership abilities. So, you can find out via what other people think and say about him.


If he’s in the early stages of developing his career though, you can tell by the way he leads himself.


Is he self-disciplined? Is he self-motivated? Does he keep himself accountable? Does he know how to encourage and coach himself out of tough situations? Is he strong, independent, self-sufficient, and responsible?


Before one can lead others, they must first be able to lead themselves.

[Dijntntb]

That sounds like a good man. An independent man. I like that.
I like leaders.

[dynamicyandere]

They’re hard not to like. Even between straight men. (Not romantically of course.) Men tend to have admiration and respect for good leaders. Good leaders can command respect and inspire loyalty, with or without an official label or title.

[Dijntntb]

They tend to be outgoing don’t they?

[dynamicyandere]

They can be either introverted or extroverted, but even if they’re introverted, they have enough charisma and social skills to rally people together for a purpose, cause, or mission.

For example, I’m an introvert — but I know how to build teams and encourage people and motivate them to accomplish goals.

People have mistaken me as an extrovert at times. But in reality, I’m just an introvert that’s good with people. 🙂

[Dijntntb]

Cool. I am introvert too but I’m a follower.

[dynamicyandere]

There’s no shame in that, as long as you have strong convictions and follow because of your own free will.

Not everyone needs to start a movement. It’s just as important for movements to have dedicated followers to champion and support a cause.

Whether that cause be world-changing — or that cause simply be creating an environment for a happy marriage and family — both are honorable and noble causes to support.

If you’re not a visionary, you can always support a visionary you believe in.

To be balanced though, it’s good for leaders to know how to follow, when they need to. And it’s good for followers to lead when they need to. But each has the role that fulfills them the most.

Some people assume being a leader is what they want. But to be a GOOD leader, means that one also takes responsibility for every mistake they make as well as the mistakes of the people they lead.

True leaders are servants to the mission and cause they believe in, and they serve their followers by leading them well and helping them reach their fullest potential.

It’s a lot of responsibility and pressure and work — but it’s rewarding to help people work together as a team and see a goal or mission or vision come to fruition.

And as for followers, it can feel rewarding to contribute to a cause you believe in and be appreciated for your contribution, loyalty, dedication, and impact — whether this cause be a personal or professional cause.

[CaliAttorneyGuy]

Look up alpha male versus sigma male. Both are leaders, but the sigma prefers to not stay the leader. The sigma is the lone wolf type described as introverted alpha males. Sigmas can easily step into the role of an alpha when necessary, but they prefer to do their own thing most of the time. I’m definitely a sigma lol.

[Kayla45]

Usually men who can make positive decisions for themselves are probably good leaders.

[Billlewis]

I just started following you and I'd love it if you could follow me as well, if it's alright. Thank you very much.

[inhua]

simple. does he get brainwashed by the media and get all emotional during debates where he resorts to slander?

[Hanrej]

Well ofcourse it's hard. Leaders are rare. If they weren't then there wouldn't be enough followers for any one person to call themselves a leader.

[exitseven]

He follows his own set of rules and does not follow rhe crowd.

[jahaims]

He leads by example. He doesn't ask someone to do something he hasn't done or wouldn't do. Good morals.

[YAsQuen]

if u like all his opinions.. Nope not a good leader