Can you give a man something that he doesn’t value? What’s the point in doing that?

[Anonymous]

I use to think that lie was true: that men value kindness and a nice personality from a woman. A good listener, someone to care about whatever they’re talking about.

but I realized that’s not what they would pay money for.

men will pay money to lay with your body a few minutes.
that’s about all men value from a woman.
im a nice person that’s not going to change. But to think a man is going to pay me for that is foolish , I see now.

[Dinklex3]

?

I’m guessing you’re the one who wants to be paid for listening?

Most humans actually WANT to be a good person. What does that include? Having a good personality, being a good listener, kindness, and being caring. We do that FREE. Men and women BOTH.
So if a guy is kind, sweet, with a great personality and doesn’t PAY for a girl that does the same shit he does, he doesn’t value her or those traits?
You’re upset because you can’t get paid just for being a decent human being. Friends listen to you for free. Family listens to you for free. Hell even STRANGERS. Are YOU going to pay someone just for listening to you? No. You make no sense. If you want money so bad get a damn job.

[BoopBoopBeep]

The escorts that make the REAL money aren't getting paid for sex most of the time. They're getting paid for companionship, so that kinda eats into that theory.

[Fujrntvyvy]

So where do I get into that then?

[BoopBoopBeep]

@Fujrntvyvy Depends on where you live. London it's legal, NY it's not. I don't know who they use to advertise since the two I was friends with I've lost contact with. You can't just command that price without bringing a lot to the table though. You've gotta be able to converse about a great many things, have a good attitude and of course be feminine and hot.

[spartan55]

@BoopBoopBeep
I pointed out basically the same point you did and haven't heard much from OP since.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@spartan55 Haha, "you mean I can't just lie there?"

[spartan55]

Why do you believe me don't value those other things? Completely false.

[Asker]

When has a man paid a woman for being nice and being a good listener?

[Asker]

I mean in a romantic relationship or sexual NoT talking therapy.

[spartan55]

You can pay someone to listen to you and be nice. Some high end escorts say that's all a few of their clients ever ask for. It does exist.

[Asker]

Ok well maybe I need to get into that market because so far I’m giving my good ear to people who don’t want to spend a dime on me. I’m over it.

[spartan55]

So that's how you feel valued? If a man spends money on you?

[spartan55]

Think that could be part of your problem?

[jahaims]

You are projecting your bad experiences. You just pick your partners poorly. Plenty of emotionally damaged people only want sex from the opposite gender.

[Avicenna]

You might still benefit from it if he sees that it's "the thought that counts".

[Fujrntvyvy]

I don’t understand what you’re saying

[Anonymous]

How many diffrent ways are you going to find to ask this same question tonight?

[Anonymous]

Well if you removed sex then what girls have to offer?

[Asker]

I literally just wrote that if you bother to read.

[Iron_Man]

This is not true at all what you say

[Anonymous]

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