Ex is acting weird?

[Anonymous]

This guy I had a previous fling with had one of our mutual friends call me one night to come out to the bar they were at. He had everyone wait outside in the cold to see me pull up and to say hi. He smiled the whole time and was making snarky comments when I didn’t acknowledge him. He then lied to me saying he has a girlfriend but everyone told him he was lying and that he loves me. I told him that I was
Tired of someone who doesn’t wanna commit to me and he started crying. Fast forward to now, I went to eat at the restaurant he works at and he got upset that I was there. He then wanted to come out after to “clear the air” but then he “didn’t wanna talk about the past and wants to just have fun” but then he never showed up. Obviously I’m not gonna be with this guy but I just wanna know like what is going through this guys mind? He says he doesn’t like me but everyone says that he is obsessed with me.

[spartan55]

And you are also obsessed with him too since you keep posting about him over and over. He sounds like a turd. He wasn't even your boyfriend and you have 'to know what he's thinking' and all that nonsense. He was just a hookup... all very weird.

[Honest-Matt]

This pants know what they want, that's a certainty, but maybe he does actually like you but like most people these days, don't want to settle because the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.

[ManOnFire]

I think the guy is really immature honestly. I think you shouldn't even care what's going on in his mind if he's going to act childish and standoff-ish. Leave the door closed on that one.

[Tomisworthless]

sounds like a guy struggling probably leave him alone.