Scenario: a group of guys meeting a girl. One guy lets his buddies know he’s interested 1st. Does that mean the other guys should leave her alone?

[Anonymous]

This guy is hearing from his buddy that he flirts with me and I reciprocate and now the guy who acted like he had dibs on me is ignoring me and quitting his job.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ugh bro that's messy situation right there. As for bro code, nah I don't think one guy can full-on call dibs on a girl he ain't even taken out yet, you feel me? That's lame.

But at the same time, if my boy told me he was tryna holler at a chick, I'd give him the heads up if I started feeling her too outta respect. Then they can figure it out between them - maybe they both chill, or one bows out. Depends how much each guy actually likes her.

In this case tho, sounds like dude never even made a real move? If he's just flirting but not sealing the deal, I don't blame the other guy for shooting his shot too.

And quitting his job over it? Bro is soft AS F*CK.

I don't know the whole story but if I was y'all, I'd keep it friendly with both dudes for now. Feel them both out lowkey, see who actually tryna take you out and make you a priority. Don't rush to choose either till you know they both really bout it. this early don't nobody truly own you, ya feel?

[BLP11520]

Well yeah