Girls how would you react to a male friend asking you to join him and some other mates for coffee and walk and they all turned out to be female?

[rebeliouse]

Say a guy you met and been spending some time with cos he asked you out for coffee got to know you and asked you to hang out doing other stuff like going for walk etc then later after you been hanging out with him a few times asked if you want to join him and some mates for walk or coffee or ice skate or cinema etc and when you went all the others turned out to be girls and know him in same way as you how would u react would it feel weird, would you try to get to know the other girls would you be ok to hang out all together again in future?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Depends what you mean by "friends"... See people distorted what friends, friendships are/mean with this friends with benefits crap... If he's just a friend, no sexual interaction, why would it matter how many female friends he had? And are the other females just friends or friends with benefits? Cuz some women can get jealous and catty so I wouldn't want to hang around with a bunch of females who might think/see me as competition for his attention/affection. If they're really just friends with no attraction or romantic feelings then wouldn't be an issue

[meetkitty123]

As a guy I would be impressed Lol 😆As a guy with a guy friend who showed up with a munch of girls I would be like "DAMN man whats your secret I wanna know how to get a munch of gals to hang out with me!"As a guy Id sit back and find that cup of coffee far more tasteful surrounded by all those women and Id certainly want to do it again lol 😆 id ask at the end when can we meet again. As a woman and my guy friend showed up with a munch of girls I wouldn't care since he was just a friend and more friends regardless of gender the merrier. Now if I had a crush on the guy friend then I might be a little ruffled but I wouldn't show it I would keep my cool and welcome the girls and get to know them so I can secretly take notes so I can step up my game and get the man for myself... and make sure The other women get placed and kept in the friends zone!

[rebeliouse]

great answer :D

[meetkitty123]

Lol thanks
I just saw my typo
Finger slipped while typing on the key board lol
"Bunch of girls"

[AmandaYVR]

I would wonder why he invited all females. Sounds weird.

[1Lovelylady]

I would definitely find it uncomfortable. But that's only because that type of person who loves people with all my heart. And even though my friend might be a guy I'm a girl and girl sometimes get jealous even if we were not dating. girl company is different from guy company And while guys do have friends that are female a whole flock of them is not really okay. In my opinion. And that is because 90% of women cannot control their emotions when it comes to quote just being a friend unquote. I would definitely Wonder why but not for long because I would ask. Or I would watch his body language and that of the other friends. Chances are that guy is slightly in love with all of the girls. He invited everybody for a walk coffee movie etc to see which ones loved him back. Then of course he would be able to pursue the ones who had interest in him. While guys are horrible at picking up hints they are superb with body language.. short answer he wants to know who's he going to make jealous the jealous girls like him and he will pick the best out of them. Just my take on it. The guy is probably extremely shy and expressing his feelings and does not want to get rejected. Best way to do this is to keep everybody in the friend zone. Once he realize someone is stepping out of the friend zone and into lover zone he will have the confidence to pursue them ✍️

[rebeliouse]

nice answer

[Midnight_Kiss]

Friends are friends, I really don't see the issue with what gender they are or why people make such a big deal of it, my friend of 24 years is male as is my friend of 17 years and if I dated someo who had an issue with my friends purely because they are male then I would just assume they are insecure and/or didn't trust me, neither of which or the best foundations for a healthy relationship.

[rebeliouse]

@Midnight_Kiss
think u miss the point its a male friend inviting you to do something with others but only other girls been there

[Midnight_Kiss]

No I haven't, it would be hypocritical of me to be bothered about a man having female friends when I have male friends.

[CMeow]

If I was interested in him and thought that we had something between us more than friends I would be insulted and hurt. I would still behave nicely and be kind to the other women, but I probably would write that guy off as not liking me and move on— unless he addressed the issue later with me and provided some kind of reassurance that I’m the girl he likes.

if I only liked him as friend, I wouldn’t put much thought into it and have no issue with that. I would maybe wonder why he has all lady friends and no men though.

[Seinna]

I'm suspicious but curious so I stay to observe him and collect information.

No, seriously :D It would be a bit weird and at that point he would definitely remain just a friend but I'd be intrigued too.

[rebeliouse]

@Seinna
collect info for what lol

[rebeliouse]

@Seinna
follow me?

[Seinna]

Just for myself, about an interesting human specimen.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

I'd be fine with it, no difference, no biggie. It's happened before.

I would be polite and friendly unless I have reason not to be - if they're my friend's friends, I'd like to see if I can be a friend, too.

[rebeliouse]

sounds good :D

[PaynefulPleasures]

If he's looking for a harem, no way.
If they're just friends no big deal, don't base your life on drama ✌️

[rebeliouse]

@PaynefulPleasures
how would you tell diff?

[PaynefulPleasures]

Analyze the behavior it's not rocket science, you can tell by the way an individual is acting especially in a group setting
Plus this individual isn't in a relationship with them which could throw off their perception

[TsundereMatrix]

If it were to be like a date then I would be uncomfortable and possibly feel a bit tricked but it’s was just a friendly hangout it wouldn’t make a difference to me.

[rebeliouse]

friendly hangout

[MoonStalker]

Why does the gender matter? They're just friends so unless you have to report them for something and the police need a gender I don't see what that would affect...

[rebeliouse]

so you wouldn't have any issue hanging out with your friends friends even if they are all girls?

[MoonStalker]

As long as they're not mean. I'd actually probably feel safer that way as I haven't really been groped by a girl and I'd be very uncomfortable if I was the only girl with a large group of guys.

[Ninani]

I don't like female company, so I would leave. Doesn't matter how he knows them, that's out of my comfort zone.

[rebeliouse]

@ninani
what if he picked you up in the car to take you?

what if he told you the names before hand so u figured it was all girls

[Ninani]

Then I'd need him to focus on me for comfort. My social anxiety gets worse if I don't have someone to lean on.

[rebeliouse]

@ninani
what if the girls were very nice and also make you comfortable?

[Ninani]

Haven't met girls like that before, so I wouldn't know. All the girls that have been nice to me turned out to be two-faced bitches.

[rebeliouse]

@ninani
what if they turn out to be like the guy as he has already vetted them in a way as he is friends with them