I ended my 4 year-old relationship because he cheated. I had to find out through a text message and the girl herself called me, told me everything. Apparently he lied to her about being single and she found out we were together.
He only admitted it when showing him the text and confronting him about the girl calling me. I broke up and my phone has been bombarded with his calls asking for another chance. Well 10 days after the break-up, I spent time and had sex with an old friend from middle school. We've been hanging out just recently.
My ex boyfriend called again asking for another chance. I said no and added ''besides I had a great time with (friend's name). In fact that's the best sex I've ever had. You're nothing in comparing to him''. He got pissed and reacted as if he had been cheated on, ignoring that we did it a week after the break-up. I called him out on his hypocrisy.
Why is my ex boyfriend and likely other male cheaters hypocrites? They can cheat but how dare we have our fun.
- He didn't even confess, I had to catch him in the lie and hear it from the 3rd party.
- I had sex with my friend 10 days after breaking-up (therefore I don't owe him anything) while he cheated
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Y do u care about what your toxic ex boyfriend, that cheated on you said? It doesn't matter at all and yeh you should feel free to tell everyone, don't care about the judgement
And to answer ur question, toxic narcissistis only care about themselves, he doesn't like seeing you happy without him cause it hurts his fragile ego, just ignore him
well you reacted emotionally and had sex with someone else, he reacted how id expect someone to react but at least you aren't a cheater cause you broke up with him but you are reacting emorionally and wrecklessly but it is what it is, if y'all broke up, why are you so stuck up what he thinks or says or whatever, just move on
He's an ex, why do you even care?
I don't but I find the hypocrisy in male cheaters worth laughing. They still have the double standard of expecting to be forgiven but even when we were already broken up for 10 days, he couldn't stand the idea of me with another man lol.
Yet what he did was worse because he did it while we were in the relationship, while lying to my face about everything being ok. And we're not suppose to be grossed out by them being with someone else? That's the hypocrisy I don't understand.