Why do the sweet/sensitive guys end up being cheaters?

[Hello4242]

Anyone else ever notice this?

[Constatine]

What I read here

"... I think the sensitivity could actually be there because of insecurity and not knowing themselves, and that’s why they cheat... But I’ve noticed they actually turn out to be the biggest d-bags. Which is confusing, right? You would think a bigger heart equals more loyalty, but nope."

Is realy bad... and not true.. Maybe you bring the ' best' out of these people or just not lucky.

I have a big heart ♥ and sensitive.. ( care for my love, care for animals and always help the ones in need) But i never ever dream of cheating the one who trust me and love me...

I'm not raised like that... And believe me being sensitive has noting to do with not knowing your self...

The ones you met are faking it and where asses all the time...

Realy I'm hurt reading this...😭😢 But that is my sensitive side 😂

[glennos89]

I'm sensitive and sweet but I never cheated anyone before tbh 🤷‍♂️
It depends on the person and I can reassure you that most sensitive sweet guys are happy when they find a relationship because they mostly end up in the friendzone. So they are much less likely to cheat then the dudes that are good at flirting and easily find love💯

[Hello4242]

Well, that’s what I’m attracted to. I think it’s probably a lot more complicated. If you’re sensitive and sweet but don’t know who you are as a person, then you have no sense of integrity and therefore can’t be trusted. If you’re a sweet and sensitive guy but you know who you are, then that’s perfect. You’re loyal, trustworthy, emotionally intelligent too. All amazing qualities that are hard to find, in both guys and girls.

[glennos89]

@ Hello4242 I agree with you those qualities are hard to find and the easy things are going right now... that isn't going to be better anytime soon I'm afraid 😮‍💨

[Hello4242]

Yess. It’s going to get so much worse.

[NewgodOmega]

In order to understand that answer you forst need to understand yourself
What have you done wrong that pushed him away to some other women who is giving him the thing you gave him before and why he has to go to her for those things now and why are you not providing them anymore
Clear?

[ProbablyClueless]

I have not noticed that. I guess that would happen because the guys you consider to be sweet and sensitive are actually just extremely compliant because they lack a sense of healthy boundaries.

[RedInnocent68]

Because being sweet/sensitive is critical to their reproductive strategy, giving them a competitive edge over the players that have the opposite strategy. It’s very difficult to overcome biology. I’m not convinced girls are much different, just have different considerations, like childbearing and a stronger need for stability.

[BarryLiverstone]

Because if the guy is reality emotional or sensitive with you early on before you have earned it.. wouldn’t the pattern hold that he’s like that with other girls?

[Starrrboy]

Anyone can be a cheater.. anyone!.. even people who are butt ugly lol.

[Hello4242]

Yeah I can see that. How do you think a girl can tell if a guy is a cheater or capable of cheating?

[Starrrboy]

They're suspiciously cold or chill in situations you'd expect them to be the total opposite.. They have a lot of mood swings when they're with you..

[OddBeMe]

Their sweet side was a myth or persona they used as a charade…or facade.

[Anonymous]

Cause you swallow it hook, line, and sinker.😆😆😆 congrats!

[jahaims]

They get taken advantage of then stop caring.

[BLP11520]

I thought it was the A type personality?

[Hello4242]

I think it is, but also seems to be some connection with sensitivity and cheating. I think the sensitivity could actually be there because of insecurity and not knowing themselves, and that’s why they cheat. I like sensitive guy, guys that are a bit on the more emotional side. But I’ve noticed they actually turn out to be the biggest d-bags. Which is confusing, right? You would think a bigger heart equals more loyalty, but nope.

[BLP11520]

That’s interesting

[BLP11520]

Follow me please

[intovertedguy]

Most likely they are not as sensitive as they seem, they are just pretending they are sensitive to get women to have sex with them.

In general women like man who are kind to them and show tenderness towards them, some men use this against women by pretending they are sensitive when in truth they are players.

[In_Trance]

never noticed this