Is he into me or not?

[Anonymous]

A guy at the gym is always staring and recently started working out near me and leaves when I do but he hasn’t tried to talk to me.

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I can tell he wants to but I think he’s nervous.

[Curmudgeon]

He may just glance once in a while because you look great. He may indeed be into you, but if he is attached, he won't (unless he is a cretin), and / or he may not think you are interested.

[Anonymous]

Isn't it bad etiquette to hit on girls in the gym?

[Asker]

I’d say so. That’s why I noticed he hangs around where I’m working out long after he’s done then leaves the gym when I do. He’ll walk close but doesn’t say anything. Guess I should just let it go.

[Opinion Owner]

He might be into you, but you might have to initiate something if you are interested.

[purpleisweird]

Just try to smile and say hi. Start from there. There's nothing wrong for women to make the first move

[Evelyn99]

He is not into you.

[spartan55]

So say hi to him.