My boyfriend keeps telling me I should lose some weight and work out more, but he loves my boobs so how would I compromise this? Do I even need to?

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Oliverlogan263 · Accepted Answer

Your boyfriend's comments don't sound very supportive. Your body is yours, and you should feel comfortable in your own skin no matter what size or shape you are. Working out is great if it makes you feel good, but not everyone needs to or wants to change their body. Maybe tell him his remarks make you self-conscious, and you'd prefer if he focused on appreciating you for who you are inside, not just your appearance. A respectful partner will love you for you, not try changing little things. If he keeps it up after you talked to him, that might be a red flag. You deserve someone who thinks you're perfect just as you are!

lightbulb27 · Accepted Answer

you are drinking water, credit for that.

Why don't you want to? There might be a real values issues underneath that.

if you want to work out for some goal, do that. If you don't, ok

there's plenty you can do for health.

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Accepted Answer

Let him know if he wants you to lose weight, you’ll drop a cup size before you drop a pants size because that’s how women’s bodies work. If he still insists, drop the man and move on

Date_a_Snob · Accepted Answer

your boobs look amazing do what feels right you

ohsheeT · Answer

Yeah I'm going to go with boobs when every time I guess it depends on you I guess it depends on what you want to do because it is your choice

I can't really see what he's talking about but if you want to do something for yourself and if you think you need to do it then go work out or

30 minutes a day for 30 days walk at a fast pace and I guarantee you your whole body will tone up even your boobs you think he likes them. Now wait until after 30 days but you have to commit to it though

Anonymous · Answer

You should workout regularly for your heath anyway. But if you want to keep your boobs, you need to be mindful of HOW you workout. Focus on strength training (lift more) and don't overdo the cardio. The girls who overdo cardio end up losing boobs and frequently end up skinny/fat anyway which is where you appear thin but have very little muscle, your boobs are largely gone but your bodyfat percentage is still oddly high.

Instead focus on strength training. You'll add muscle mass which burns fat more efficiently. Your natural shape will improve (bubble bum, shapely legs, better waist to hip ratio, flatter tummy) but with minimal damage done to your boobs. That's the ideal situation for you.

Holsen · Answer

In my opinion your boobs are really ok and more than that they are really perfect and gorgeous and you don’t seem like you need to lose weight or even going to the gym but if you should then I would recommend the gym just for definition to further boost your curves and shapes!!

Sofargone93 · Answer

You should do what makes you feel comfortable in your own body. When you lose weight everything goes with it except muscle. If he's concerned with you having flabby arms or having a belly it will go away with time but you're breast will be come smaller and sag because that's just muscle covered with fat. I say just start jogging and watch what you eat and drink less alcohol. You don't have to be perfect but a little effort. He'll respect you more for doing a little jog twice a week. 😄

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Don't see anything wrong with you don't need to lose weight at all

FoxEyez · Answer

Alright listen, as someone who loves to work out, your BREASTS are NEVER compromised when you work out. But of course, if you're trying to be a bodybuilder, then say goodbye to them breasts.

strateguy632 · Answer

exercise won't shrink boobs. check with your family physician it might be an important health issue to lose weight. if not then inform guy.

HelpfulWoman · Answer

if it's not something you agree you need to do, then don't do it and tell him to stop bringing it up.

laraWM · Answer

He's not really nice, just stay as you are if you are happy

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Your weight is perfect in my opinion. I'm not into ripped/muscular women though, maybe he is?

notfoundtoday · Answer

Well with above given image I am unable trace anything extra weight in you but I must say that you have a nice pair.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Be as fat as you want to. ''We'' have options :)

Tim2nice · Answer

You don’t compromise. You do what’s best for you

boobliker · Answer

it is very easy to lose the weight but drink water, and milk. then ask him how you look. if he wants more tell him to show you how or dump him.

Darkside2543 · Answer

My personal opinion I agree you have nice amazing boobs but I don’t think you need to lose weight

Anonymous · Answer

You know whether you are overweight and I would guess the answer is "yes," so why are you asking us?

jjj101010 · Answer

It’s hard to tell from that pic. I guess it depends how u feel though. If u want an objective opinion, I’m happy to chat more, drop me a message

TheGuyYouCrave · Answer

Hit the treadmill. Intermitt fasting, and bye.

Drewtate · Answer

If you've a fat belly it's a problem

Uby10000 · Answer

Your body, your rules.

tfan1 · Answer

You look great 👍🙂

DextroShade · Answer

Just work on getting toned, not losing weight.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Do what works for you.

balyai · Answer

You don't need to loose weight.

In_Trance · Answer

Is your boyfriend 18?

BLP11520 · Answer

Nothing wrong with you

riverrat3 · Answer

Looks good in this pic, but most of body is hid

pickles77 · Answer

You look lovely

yourfriendrob · Answer

Absolutely not 👏

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