Damn, that's not cool of him at all to get so angry and curse at you like that. You had every right to bring it up if it bothered you.
Following other girls on socials is kinda disrespectful to you in a relationship, so your request wasn't unreasonable at all. And for him to break his word like that then explode on you... not a good look.
If he can't even handle a simple conversation about something that upsets you without losing his cool, that's a red flag. You deserve someone who actually listens and respects your feelings.
Don't let him make you feel like you're in the wrong either - you did nothing to warrant getting yelled at. His behavior was unacceptable. Guys who curse at their girls always find excuses, but that crap's never okay.
Talk to him and let him know his reaction hurt you. If he doesn't apologize and do better, might be time to find someone who treats you with care, like you deserve sis. You don't need that toxic stuff bringing you down!
You are immature and insecure. The guy is in a relationship with you. Why worry about other girls? I have a wife and the less I know about her daily activities the better I sleep at night. That said, the guy shouldn’t yell at you or curse you.
u Well you are definitely a bit insecure if you care that much about him following girls on social media. He is in a relationship with you and not them. That seems really controlling to tell him what he can and can't do. Is he not allowed to have female friends either? That said he shouldn't have agreed not to then done it anyway. There also is no need for him to curse and blow up like that. There are better ways of dealing with problems. I think you both need to make some changes and be better.
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You’re really insecure. I hate to say this but you’re probably going to be insecure w a lot of things men do whether it’s on purpose or not. When you say he’s following a girl, exactly what do you mean? Like on twitter, IG, Facebook? Does this girl do something specific like play basketball, fish or something? I ask because I follow a few chicks online. One does Muay Thai, one cooks, one fishes and a couple do arts and crafts. So exactly what is it about this girl he’s following? And honey that insecurity is going to push him away because it can get annoying. Even if he’s not doing something sounds like you’re always goin to project that insecurity on him. What about female co-workers? Can he have those? I mean cause he’s closer to them than someone he follows online.
u I think its extremely Insecure to require to police your partner like that or show u don't trust him if u think doing this will stop him from looking at women or makes sure he won't cheat on you means u shouldn't be in a relationship its fine stating that following random women makes u feel uncomftble but to have it as a rule is ridiculous
Nope that doesn’t work like that, it’s his bad for treating you badly as you said that, anyway it’s inexcusable even if he was chasing his sister or cousin he shouldn’t have been angry and mad like that, its so disrespectful and mean to you!!
It's his fault for getting involved with you when you were a walking red flag to begin.
I think excessive jealousy is not good
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