Guys, Falling for your friend?

[Anonymous]

If you met a woman online due to mutual interests (not a dating site) and you became friends and then started liking her how would you treat her? What if you were in a relationship but still liked this woman, too?

[DannyUk2017]

Well.. if i would have a relationship and is (toxic), and the "other woman" would make me feel, important, wanted, desired... ofcourse i would go for the Other Woman! 🤷‍♂️
We all go where it feels better, no?

[Asker]

True. What if you were married though? Would you just stay friends with this woman? Or cut it off?

[DannyUk2017]

Marriage=Good time (for a limited time), as the "toxicity" starts to "reveal itself", so ofcourse... again... i would Go where it feels better.

[Asker]

Yeah true but if you claim to be happily married then why keep a friendship with this other woman? It just seems weird. It’s happening to me right now and I don’t know what to think of it all…

[DannyUk2017]

Well if happily married which i think It Might Not Be, could be that he is lying about being happy or he got tired of the "current situation" and wants to be with you, or he just Likes to play on "both sides" 🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

It’s so confusing. I actually started to develop feelings for him (and mentioned it to him) but told him it wasn’t fair to him or me and he just kept being my friend and continuing on almost at the same speed. He never once said he’s committed to his wife or happily married, it’s just how he presents himself in general. It’s like he says one thing but acts another. Sigh.

[DannyUk2017]

Yeah, sounds like you just "opened a door" to his Desire/Lust/Arousal towards him. And he likes it, so he will take it! 🤷‍♂️
Show me a man that Says No to a Woman ehen in Need? 🤔

[Asker]

Yeah maybe I did. But he’s always saying “we are just friends” but certainly flirts and makes me feel pretty special. There’s a lot of mixed messages. It’s exhausting and of course I just stick around because I have feelings for him. It kind of sucks. It’s been over a year of this now.
Thanks for your insight :)

[DannyUk2017]

So that means he might looking for a way out from his "current" marriage, and he can't wait to get in with you... but make no mistake, he might just want to get in between ur legs, and nothing more... i mean flirting is kinda innocent, until one or both get "naked" and sparks start flying, but.. it can also be just a "thing" and nothing more... and i don't know and don't know you if you're ready to be the "other one", because if he has the Power to leave her, he could do the "same" to You... Been there done that! 😉🤫.
Very Welcome! 👍

[Asker]

If I’m being honest all I want is to sleep with him at this point. He doesn’t live near me though and I don’t even want to have a relationship with him but I would definitely explore a physical one. I guess he just wants to keep me as a friend but it’s torture. I also wouldn’t want him to leave his wife but…I’m awful. I’m sure I’ve secured my spot in hell by now!

[DannyUk2017]

Lol... didn't we secure our spot in Hell? 🤣...
Before going in there, please save me a Seat, i'll pay you for it, as we both, and many others we are on the way there...🤣
Now on a serious side... It is what it is.. our bodily Urges cannot contain themselfs, it is so much we can take that... one day we feel like exploding, i know what you mean when... Lust, Desire, Arousal kicks in... is seems so Wrong but feels so Good! 🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

Hahhaha yes. 😈🪑🤣

[DannyUk2017]

Thank you... let the Lust begin then...😈🤣🤣🤣

[Asker]

Well it’s already begun, at least for me! I haven’t let him know that I’m attracted to him specifically but he knows I probably have a slight crush on him. And when I confronted him a second time about our “friendship” he said he hopes he’s not leading me on…ummm. He is. I got a bit angry at that whole situation because we were pretty close emotionally (which he agrees) and yet here we are, still “friends”. 🙄🙄🙄😬

[DannyUk2017]

You both sound Horny af, but none of you make a move...🤣
If i was Him, i would've ripped ur panties off by now... i mean is "so much" a man can take a Tease! 🤣
A woman is hard to "see" when she's teased, but a man is easily "seen"...😉🤫😁

[Asker]

So…you think he is attracted to me? We’ve “met” online many times so he’s seen me and we’ve talked on the phone. All related to our “mutual interest” but, I have to wonder if it’s all just a mask for how he really feels. I think we have a complicated relationship.

[DannyUk2017]

Complicated or not, if i was Him i would've Seduced/Teased u so much that your body and mind would send you spinnin... He might ecoect you to make a move first, as he is "hooked" 😉

[Asker]

Yea he makes me a bit crazy. I’m certainly hooked too and it doesn’t help me when he sends me innocent pics with his serious biceps on display. 🥵 argh. There’s nothing I can do, he will reject me. He’s married and I’m just a game to him, I’m sure.

[DannyUk2017]

Then find someone else... even if is just for a short time/fling/sex... just to get your urges out of your way, and then "focus" on what you really want.

[Asker]

Well, I’m actually in a relationship as well and my needs are “met”. I guess it’s just him I want. Oh well. I’m trying to move on. See? Very complicated.

[DannyUk2017]

Oh... ok! Yeah it is complicated! Just to be clear then tell him: "listen i just want to fuck the shit out of you, at least one time" and then we'll see what we chose to do later on! 🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

Hahahahaha exactly!! God I wish I could just say that. Maybe one day I will and then peace out. I will have nothing to lose at that point. 🤣🤣😈😈

[DannyUk2017]

You see? That's it! If he doesn't want to take Charge, then you will... but if i was him? Fuck... you couldn't even imagine, what i would've done to you, if you were teasing me like that! 😈😈🤣

[Asker]

Argh!! Haha. I tried. He likes to get close and then back off. Every time I try to walk away and he draws me back in. We also have somewhat of a public relationship due to the nature of our mutual interest so it’s even MORE complicated. Some days I’ve imagined just getting on a plane to where he is,, going to a hotel and texting him “Im here for 24 hours, this is your chance.” And just waiting. 🤣

[DannyUk2017]

Yup, that will do! Just TEASE/FRY his Brains out, trust me... The Arousal will get the Best of Him...😈😈😈😉

[Asker]

Hahaha maybe 😉

[DannyUk2017]

Not just maybe... he will throbb himself...😈😈🤣

[Asker]

I wish you were 100% right but I can’t take that chance unless he gives me more of a green light.

[DannyUk2017]

Well you might need to "push" that green light in his face...🤷‍♂️😁

[Asker]

I think he’d be shocked. I definitely come off as a good girl and somewhat moral since I’m the one who has never been overly flirty. At one point when we were discussing stuff I said I think of him instead of someone else (it would be a sort of romantic reference) and I asked if when he said he thought of someone he actually thought of me and he admitted he did so…it wasn’t of a sexual nature but I have to assume I’m on his mind more than he lets on.

[DannyUk2017]

Yeah, you see? Slowly you find the "missing" pieces...😉

[Asker]

As in? He does think of me in that way?

[DannyUk2017]

Ofcourse he does, he just plays it innocent. 😉

[Asker]

Well, that’s kind of hot then. 😈

[DannyUk2017]

So you like being "chased" huh? 😈😈😅

[Asker]

I do but I don’t mind doing the chasing if it’s not rejected haha

[DannyUk2017]

Then... chase away... at least you'll know for sure what he really wants...😈😅

[Asker]

Honestly I feel like I’ve sort of tried. I get nervous he will just stop talking to me so I try and keep it just friends now. I think he knows I would probably do whatever he wanted but I don’t think he wants it. He’s just a flirt and doesn’t want to “ruin our friendship” according to him.

[DannyUk2017]

Then, he is a Looser...🤦‍♂️

[Asker]

Pretty much or maybe he’s just loyal but still likes to be a bit naughty. I’m sure his wife wouldn’t appreciate all of the communication we’ve had.