Guys, Guy friends?

[Badkitty41]

If you meet a chick and you like her but during the getting to know her you find out she has guy friends and few to no gal pals.. you start dating her and she still has the same guy friends and even now your friends that are guys like to be her friend.. with no signs or hints of having anything other then a friendship with these guys like she is super loyal shut guys down doesn't get flirty with hands on touching or anything with her guy friends no looks no nothing she puts you in the spot light above any dude. Do you get jealous of her male friends? So much so you accuse her of cheating with one or all of them? Or any guy at that? Even though she has not given you any reason to doubt her? Or are you fine with it and just like that you are the only romantic partner and show her off and be proud she yours and be friends with her friends also?

[Anonymous]

It's important to remember that everyone has different boundaries and comfort levels when it comes to opposite-sex friendships in romantic relationships. Some people may feel comfortable with their partner having close male friends, while others may find it difficult to handle.

If you're dating someone who has close male friends but has given you no reason to doubt their loyalty or commitment to your relationship, it's important to trust and respect their boundaries. It's not fair or healthy to accuse someone of cheating or being unfaithful without evidence or cause, and it can damage the trust and respect in the relationship.

It's important to have open and honest communication with your partner about your feelings and concerns, but to do so in a respectful and non-accusatory way. It's possible to express your concerns while also acknowledging and respecting your partner's boundaries and friendships.

Ultimately, it's up to you to decide what feels comfortable and safe in your own relationship, and to communicate your needs and expectations clearly and respectfully.

[In_Trance]

Nope. Hard stop at that point. We're done.
Her: my friends are all guys, less drama

[Badkitty41]

What if they call her bro they come over with chick troubles and complain to her what if they only come around while you were around as a respect thing for both of you actually.

[Badkitty41]

What if she's not sexually attracted to any of them and they all treat her like one of the guys?

[In_Trance]

See my first response

[Badkitty41]

Lol. It is kinda funny the first response.. but I'm wondering why would you think that? It seems to me that's a trust issue you may have with yourself? A secure man has no problems and trust his partner just as a women in the vice versa situation.. a secure person has no reason to doubt thier partner especially given that the trust has not been challenged or broken. correct? So if you have a female friend you only have her as a friend cause your wanting your sausage in her mouth? It's good to hear things like this cause if a man has female friends that means the chicks are not just friends? They stuff thier sausage where ever they can with the female correct? Or am I misunderstanding you?

[hbg84]

Its not about trusting the partner it's more about trusting your friends. Men and women cannot be just friends. Especially if the woman is attractive. Every guy will eventually want to have sex with the woman.

[dudeinohio]

I'm good with it as long as none of these friends are exes.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yeah thats fine. It's honestly prefered because my friends are mostly guys, so she will fit into the friend group without issue.

[Guardian45]

Well, I'd be happy to be the only one you like, but I would be curious to know what did I do to deserve you?

[Badkitty41]

Did I get lost somewhere? Is it bad to like only one person? Or is that not something people do.. i mean im not one to feel like I need to fit in or anything but I thought once you have the hits for someone it's not even work to stay hot for them. Friends are friends and there's not that hot for them not to mention that friends that fuck don't usually stay friends and there's always weirdness of that's how it is.. i think 2 people of the opposite sex can be friends without any sexual anything.. some people just don't click like that the chemistry isn't there for anything other than a friend... I've always been treated like one of the guys. Like I started wondering why they never hit on me and stated asking them why. Ha. ha.. form turns out they all had the hits for me but knew I wouldn't budge from friendship status on my end. We are all still good friends and I'm still one of the bros. I still carry a hacky sack with me and kick with the guys its fun I like thier girlfriends and stuff.. i didn't know guys are only fuck tools only haha

[Guardian45]

I like that you can be friends with guys. My BFF was a woman who I knew for 14 years until she died unexpectedly 2 years ago.

[BHooper]

It's fine with me. I myself have a very very close friend who is a girl. I'd call her my bestfriend actually. She has a partner and we get along fine.

[shades777]

only one way to find out, experimentation