Is it ok to have low self esteem and be ok with it?

[Anonymous]

I am comfortable being unattractive and knowing the fact that 95% of men will not be attracted to me. I know I'm ugly and I don't care. My self esteem is so low that whenever a guy happens to make any eye contact with me, I dodge eye contact and never look back. But at the end of the day, I don't really care and I don't feel like I'm missing out on anything.

[McLlovin]

Low self esteem effects other things as well so its not good to settle with being sad. Even someone who is considered “ugly” can be attractive if they have great confidence and high self esteem. Looks matters to people but its not the only thing we care about because we eventually get old. Personality is just as important. Looks get your foot in the door but personality keeps them.

[Asker]

why can't you just face the fact that nobody would marry someone they aren't physically attracted to?

[McLlovin]

I didn't say that someone would marry a person they’re not attracted to. Thats self explanatory. However dont forget you just said that someone has found you attractive.

[Asker]

yea maybe like 1 over 30 years of my lifetime. really doesn't count.

[McLlovin]

The point is someone found you attractive. So even if 1 person found attractive then that means what you think is ugly someone else disagrees. And if 1 person saw that that means there’s definitely more people that think the same you just haven’t met them yet

[Asker]

95% of men think im unattractive. how much of a chance do i really get?

[McLlovin]

Do you know why? Because you have low self esteem. Low self esteem isn’t attractive. I've never seen anyone day hay look at that hot depressing woman

[Asker]

we are strangers. they don't even know me. how would they know i have low self esteem?

[Asker]

oh trust me, in the past, i have put on a shining smile, positive cheerful attitude and even then they aren't attracted to me

[McLlovin]

Body language

[Asker]

why should an unattractive woman have high self esteem? quite funny of you to expect the ugliest person on earth to think soooo highly of themselves.

[Asker]

oh trust me, in the past, i have put on a shining smile, positive cheerful attitude and even then they aren't attracted to me..

[Anonymous]

Eventually you'll find the 5%.