I sent a girl club soda with a slice of orange and a little umbrella before. I had no intention of talking to her. She was a girl who had been mean to a friend.
frilly with no substance. Still cost me $10. We called it the “yada-yada”
I don't buy girls drinks often. Too many just want free stuff these days, then again so do guys. That being said... if I buy a girl a drink, I think your worthy of my time, and that's all I'm asking for in return. I know that sounds mean... but a person has to have filters these days.
Conversation, while the drink lasts, and hope that it will lead to more conversation to get to know each other and that will lead to a meaningful relationship.
well like any normal straight guy i would want the sex but to be honest nowadays a good conversation became just as valueable as sex cuz i get too easily bored witheverything even sex.
Unless a woman is out specifically to have sex that evening, my experience and belief is that it's the ultimate insult and turn off for a guy to assume that buying a woman a drink is going to lead to anything other than getting to know each other through conversation and any guy who assumes otherwise does not understand women and does not know how to treat them. Unless she signals you otherwise, you should not expect anything else.
You know I’d buy you a drink 🥃 if your flesh self were here… seems kinda silly looking at these 2 drinks sitting here in front of me with no one else around…
My friend you don't need confidence. You already got it. Use it. I see it all the time where I work. Go out and get them. I'd be happy to be your wing girl.
I think just the chance to get to talk to her and get to know her. We might not be compatible which is fine but just the chance to talk and get to know her.
The strip club, which I often would go to, but have since significantly decreased on, you're allowed to of course, and are encouraged to, buy the girls their drinks. We know that it's just them making "money" through not having to spend on their own drink, but that it's still a strip club. What happens in the club, typically stays in the club
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Hopefully a good with a genuine girl... that's all 🤷♂️
Good man
Thanks 🥰
Probably a conversation and more like friendship then relationships
Agree and thank you for sharing.
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I sent a girl club soda with a slice of orange and a little umbrella before. I had no intention of talking to her. She was a girl who had been mean to a friend.
frilly with no substance. Still cost me $10. We called it the “yada-yada”
Never had someone try that while I have been bartending... yet. 😆
I don't buy girls drinks often. Too many just want free stuff these days, then again so do guys. That being said... if I buy a girl a drink, I think your worthy of my time, and that's all I'm asking for in return. I know that sounds mean... but a person has to have filters these days.
Conversation, while the drink lasts, and hope that it will lead to more conversation to get to know each other and that will lead to a meaningful relationship.
Pragmatically, ideally you're 'buying' their attention for the time it takes for them to consume that beverage... ie: "please here me out..." ~ ;)
well like any normal straight guy i would want the sex but to be honest nowadays a good conversation became just as valueable as sex cuz i get too easily bored witheverything even sex.
Unless a woman is out specifically to have sex that evening, my experience and belief is that it's the ultimate insult and turn off for a guy to assume that buying a woman a drink is going to lead to anything other than getting to know each other through conversation and any guy who assumes otherwise does not understand women and does not know how to treat them. Unless she signals you otherwise, you should not expect anything else.
Conversation if she accepts. A chance to get to know if there’s a chance for things to go further, either friendship or romance.
Where's momma's drink then?
Where’s momma? 🤨
You know where me be.
You know I’d buy you a drink 🥃 if your flesh self were here… seems kinda silly looking at these 2 drinks sitting here in front of me with no one else around…
I mean, should I send you a picture of the bottle?
How's about I get one of my own?
Sounds like both of us are gonna get drunk going nowhere here 🤣
Oh it'll be going somewhere not good for someone else 😆
Yeesh.. lol now I need to buy myself a drink
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Hey if I'm going to get wet might as well join me. 😆
🥵 umm yeah!
Uh-oh. I’ve been bought lots of drinks, had no idea men expect me to do anything with them other than flirting…
A smile and a thank is all. But striking up a meaningful conversation would be a welcome bonus.
I think that is the least someone can do. I always will chat with someone if they buy me a drink.
Well I wouldn't expect anything less from you honey 😘
Mwah! 💋
A conversation would be nice, but if she isn't interested, I'd at least hope for a thank you.
You absolutely should get a thank you. You should get a chat in my opinion.
It's good to know women who think like you exist. Gives me a little more confidence when I go out.
My friend you don't need confidence. You already got it. Use it. I see it all the time where I work. Go out and get them. I'd be happy to be your wing girl.
Not as effective but still...
You're awesome Haha
I think just the chance to get to talk to her and get to know her. We might not be compatible which is fine but just the chance to talk and get to know her.
The chance to see her again, if she's someone I'm interested in.
The strip club, which I often would go to, but have since significantly decreased on, you're allowed to of course, and are encouraged to, buy the girls their drinks. We know that it's just them making "money" through not having to spend on their own drink, but that it's still a strip club. What happens in the club, typically stays in the club
Maybe some conversation.. Beyond that nothing
If she buys me a drink, she probably just wants sex. LMAO!!!
Good conversation. But with you @_Maya_ home base... lol...😇😉🤩
The minimum is probably $15 but it could be $25 or $30.
Conversation at first, and try to get to know them, after a few more rounds and see what happens.