When you buy someone a drink, what do you expect from them?

[Foxeyes]

When you go out and buy someone a drink what do you expect from them?

Nothing I'm just being kind

I just want to talk if they are open to more that's great

I expect sex I buy the drink I want something in return

I don't buy people drinks ever !

If I buy someone a drink that's it we are married now !

[EmbraceThePain]

Well, I don’t really expect much depending on the context. In this case, if it’s a woman that I fancy me buying a drink for her would be a gesture of kindness and affection. I would be hoping that by me buying her a drink, it would be received positively by her and may open other avenues of conversation or feelings towards me that would otherwise be closed. Now, I’ve never bought a woman a drink for this purpose ever in my life, but I’m saying if I did then it would be because I fancied a woman and wanted to get on her good side.

[Zeus_66]

In this day and age, a guy is out of his mind to buy a girl a drink. Progressives want a society of feminine men because "masculinity is toxic." So women don't deserve a masculine guy.

Excluding my wife, mother, daughter, and close female friends of our family, I stopped holding doors for women about 6-7 years ago. I was at work and got called a chauvinist pig and a misogynist. No joke. So forget common courtesy and mannerisms. It just isn't worth it to do anything for women in general anymore.

[hIopinionated_]

Guys buy women drinks with the hope of getting sex so trust me, women are better off. You think you’re hurting women, you’re doing normal women a humerus favor here. Men just don’t get it. All we want is to be left alone. That’s it

[Zeus_66]

@hlopinionated: I understand that. But that wasn't the point I was making. My point was MEN are better off not engaging. We don't want the hassle. Not worth it.

[hIopinionated_]

No I love it. By all means don’t engage. Because from my pov, as a woman, men are dangerous and it’s best not to have that in a vulnerable’s person company. The violence against women, too much so again, by all means continue to be yourself. Thank you !

[Zeus_66]

You seem like a man hater. That's fine. Not sure how a drink at a bar somehow leads to domestic violence 10 minutes later. But cool.

[hIopinionated_]

So I’m a man hater because I hate sexist men. Makes sense. You make so much sense my EXAMPLE seems too hard to fathom. Aren’t you smart lol

[Zeus_66]

You're basically implying all men are sexist. That's why I triggered you with saying "man hater."

[Zeus_66]

I'm not arguing with you. But you seem very general in thought about men. That's all I'm saying.

[hIopinionated_]

I didn’t imply that. Of course 100% of men in the world aren’t sexist. Maybe about. .97% at the most give or take

[Zeus_66]

So less than 1% are sexist? I think more men than that are.

[hIopinionated_]

But what I said was true, men are dangerous. Doesn’t mean I’m a man hater. I quite like normal men so I can’t be a man hater

[hIopinionated_]

No 97% not.97%.

[Zeus_66]

Very cool. And yes, there are some vial men out there we need to protect the ladies from.

[Zeus_66]

97% of all men are not sexist. Don't be silly.

[hIopinionated_]

Than why do most men believe in gender roles? Believing in sexist man-made gender roles definitely makes a person sexist and most men have that belief. It isn’t silly. History proves that

[Zeus_66]

They aren't man made; it's nature. You can be in denial if you choose. But men can't have children. Women aren't as strong as men. A man's instinct to protect his family. A woman's intuition to nurture a child (and men for the matter). That's how it is. That doesn't equate to sexism. Being sexist is to demean the other sex through humiliation, intimidation, dismissal, and to objectify. My wife has ALL of the qualities I listed above for women. I have ALL of the qualities listed for men. Do i oppress her? No. This family is run equally. But that doesn't mean we deny our roles because somehow they don't exist.

You show me a woke, feminized male tiger, and I'll give you a dollar.

[hIopinionated_]

It’s not nature. Women can do it all: have children, be the boss, be president, be a business owner, run departments, etc. The issue is that sexist men like you love to limit women by placing us all in boxes and forcing us into servitude. Men are the ones who created these gender roles and made sure women couldn’t own property, vote, work, etc. You people are weak and love the idea of women being second class citizens to serve you. Marriage doesn’t benefit women, just the man

[Zeus_66]

And when you poke the bear enough, it finally attacks. You labeled me a sexist for being a good man, providing for my family, and watching over them. Cool.

I'm glad you can do it all. Funny though, when I was in Special Forces, I don't remember seeing you out on the battlefield. Yeah, I guess we were in different parts of Afghanistan and Iraq from one another. Come to think of it, I never saw a woman in SF. Not once. But hey, I'm all for it, especially if she's nine months pregnant. Women SHOULD be in harm's way at all times, especially while with child. Her body, her choice. Standards mean nothing.

How the transgendered "women" keep cutting into the woman's world and killing all of your sports records, take all of your jobs, and show you what it means to be a real woman. You deserve it.

In no way, shape, or form does marriage benefit a man. Everything we work for is taken from women like you when they divorce. Plus you hold the children over our heads just to squeeze more money out of us. YOU'RE the weak. If you weren't, you wouldn't need men. Plain and simple.

Sad that somehow, you mixed intelligence value in with physical limitations when I did not such thing. You are triggered. You are a man hater. You hate everything around you. You are not a nice person. And you are a leech. Simple as that. You have nothing of value to offer except for your vial train of thought. I feel sorry for you. I really do. I was trying to explain my side and keep you calm. I should've known it was only a matter of time before you blew a gasket.

Best of luck. I mean that sincerely. My chat is always open. If you'd like to engage in actual dialogue at some point when you're more reasonable, feel free to hit me up. I believe there is still hope for you.

[KrakenAttackin]

@zeus_66. Don't worry about @hIopinionated_ , she has been pumped/dumped too many times.

[Zeus_66]

@KrakenAttackin: First, love your handle! Norwegians are amazing!

Strangely, I think she made some points because she was being honest about her feelings. However I may disagree with her, I appreciate her honesty above all.

Indeed, I believe she's probably been through the ringer one too many times. But I guess that was the whole point when I made my original comment and this portion of the thread grew. I'd be a hypocrite to not own up to my opinion due to same/similar experience. And that is why I was sincere with her in my last response that I wish her the best, and she can always reach out to chat. I bet deep down, she is quite a nice person.

[hIopinionated_]

@Zeus_66 Omg you’re so stupid. I’m speaking in general pea size brain person. You express your sexist beliefs and I made you look stupid yet you still don’t get it. Man get a brain do I really have to spell it out for you again but in a simpler way? You have your boyfriend here kissing your as hyping you up so I guess facts wouldn’t matter here anyways

[hIopinionated_]

@KrakenAttackin And how many times have you been pumped and dumped? Guaranteed it’s been more than me so speak for yourself trashcan

[Zeus_66]

@KrakenAttackin: Maybe I was wrong... When you put out an olive branch through respectable and articulate dialogue, only to be met with a triggered, rant filled response and name calling, just isn't worth it.

@hlopinionated_: Bless your heart. Have a wonderful and relaxing weekend. Keep that chin up and head held high.

[hIopinionated_]

Actually I am a nice person but why would I be nice and or respectful to sexist people. And when the world continues to fall apart for women? I am done tolerating people like that. Life is too short

[Zeus_66]

You keep calling me a sexist when I have not made a single sexist remark. You may think I have. But I haven't. Not my fault you're in denial. The truth of the matter is you CAN'T do it all. You know who else can't do it all? Men.

But what I have gotten back from you is continuous insults and put downs, and triggered aggression. That's not nice. And I'm willing to bet there are more women that agree with me than there are men who agree with you, especially in regards to your behavior.

My inbox is always open. Feel free to reach and chat whenever.

[Subarugirl]

Masculinity and toxic masculinity are two different things. Masculinity and femininity are not opposites...

[Zeus_66]

@Subarugirl: I hear what you're saying, but somewhat disagree. "Toxic masculinity" does not exist. It is a made up term by the woke left in order to marginalize men into an enemy of all things.

Masculinity and femininity, by value, are the same. But as acted upon, are indeed opposites.

Thanks for the comment.

[hIopinionated_]

@Zeus_66 *sigh* again with not comprehending what I’ve said. I never said I personally can do it all. Obviously no one can but as a collective whole men AND women can and does it all. My point of even pointing that out was the fact that you believe in gender roles which is sexist. Gender roles said women are baby making machine maids meant to clean, cook, and give sex to their masters. I say women are much more than that because it’s been proven time and time again. Despite the fact that girls are continually taught to be a gender role, many women still work, be employers, run for president, be in the highest court despite how corrupt it is, etc. women are still doing it when decades ago female authors had to change their names to male names to be published, dress as men to join the military, etc. THAT is what I was saying

[Zeus_66]

And yet again you put words in my mouth that were never said. But it all makes sense now. And I should've known from the get go. You are a loony leftist, most likely white and somewhat affluent, dictating to us how it is gonna be; not how it is. So let me freaking school you, like so many of you other entitled little brats that have come before you.

You call SCOTUS corrupt. Why? Because they ruled in a way you don't like? Tough. They aren't there to make you happy. They are there to interpret the constitutionality of laws. Roe did NOT, I say again, did NOT give women the right to an abortion. Roe's decision was that federal government should be involved with a woman's right to privacy via due process. That was a glitch.

The overruling of Roe fixed the glitch. If your so called feminist movement / girl power bullshit actually really meant "Hands off our bodies!", then in fact, you are in FAVOR of Roe being overturned, because SCOTUS removed the federal government from your body and gave YOU, THE PEOPLE the power back to make law via elected officials; not the f'ing SCOTUS. THAT would be corrupt.

You have the power to change it. So go change it. And by the way, abortion isn't illegal in the United States. So stop with the theatrics. Sick and tired of white liberal leftists like you trying to tell the rest of us how it is. Christ, we got a regular Margaret Sanger on our hands here. Yep, you enjoy killing the babies, manipulating black and brown women to do so at astronomical rates. How eugenic of you.

Like I said, I should've known you were a loose cannon leftist globalist. Enjoy your weekly abortion in Kalifornia. So glad you're triggered and consumed by my comments. Makes me feel good knowing how rattled you are, my silly little SJW puppet. 🙂

[hIopinionated_]

Lmao I totally knew the exact reason you called me a loony leftist before even reading your question to me. Aren’t I smart 🥹

And no, they’re corrupt because they’re hypocrites and most of them aren’t even qualified to be in the highest court

Fyi their scamming laws doesn’t stop abortions so choke on that because a forced pregnancy doesn’t mean a baby or even a healthy baby will be born so jokes on you psychos.

It’s so funny though. Based on your first comment, I already knew you were a Trumptard, I didn’t have to have a conversation with you to confirm how psychotic you are. Trumptards are sexist and you’re sexist so common sense

[hIopinionated_]

Also, I didn’t put words into your mouth. You said yourself gender roles are nature when it’s a fact that those roles were made by sexist men centuries ago.

History 101 is calling your name

[Zeus_66]

A few very important items of note.

First, you didn't deny my analysis of you. So thank you for the corroboration.

Second, I'm pro choice.

Third, I'm a Libertarian/Constitutional conservative (which you probably think means conservative, but it doesn't)

Last, sorry to burst your bubble, but I didn't vote for Trump. In fact, I've never voted for a candidate that made it into office.

Sucks being so wrong about someone, eh?

[Zeus_66]

You're correct for once! I did say that gender roles are derived from nature. What I DIDN'T SAY was women belong in the kitchen, barefooted and pregnant, as you tried to insinuate that I did. Additionally, I also highlighted that you, for whatever reason, tie intelligence and physical ability in as one factor when explaining men and women when I specifically stated NOT to do that. But hey, that's okay. This is coming from someone who said women can do it all, got called out for it, then had to back peddle to save face. Seriously, do yourself a favor and quit while you're behind. You're looking more and more desperate with each response.

[hIopinionated_]

First of all, Not voting is a vote for the worse candidate.

Secondly, all of that doesn’t matter because you have the same mentality as them, that makes you them regardless of all that extra so called complicated things you want to prove. It doesn’t prove anything

[hIopinionated_]

Actually You didn’t comprehend my message and made up your own meaning then when I gave more details supposedly that’s me back peddling lol. Where’s your common sense? Or brain for that matter

[Zeus_66]

As always, your responses ate factless, useless, and baseless. And you can't read apparently either.

I never said I didn't vote. What's wrong with you?

Sad that you think somebody who believes in the Constitution makes me "like them," whatever that means.

Look, your responses are getting more and more desperate. It's getting bad. You're now into the "embarrassing yourself" territory. If you want to rant on with me, I suggest we do it in private chat. Nobody else here wants to see this prolonged or read your unsubstantiated responses.

[hIopinionated_]

How is telling you what I (ME) said and meant by it is faceless? Omg lol. You just have no sense do you

[Zeus_66]

Why can't you eugenic leftists make a strong point based on facts? All you do is cry crocodile tears. Your responses are weak at best. You just fling insults back with ZERO substance. Example:

You: "The highest court is corrupt..."

Me: "Why?"

You: "Because nobody is qualified. Oh, and you're a sexist with a small brain. Take that!"

Then go get off GAG while you make your way to your weekly abortion appointment.

I mean, you're absolutely ridiculous. Amazes me how not a single consumed sheeple puppet like yourself can think for yourself or back up your statements.

Amy Coney Barrett is probably THE most qualified person ever to sit in the bench. University law professor, outstanding lawyer with solid background, and a federal judge. But she's corrupt because she ruled in favor of the federal government staying out of your uterus. And somehow, you don't support her. How misogynistic of you.

Elena Kagan was never even s judge, but you love her because she voted to keep the federal government in your uterus. But you know what I didn't do when she was nominated and selected? I didn't call her corrupt for being unqualified. The Senate disagreed with my stance and found her to be qualified. I elected my officials to negotiate that qualification, as did you. That's how the system works.

So because I believe in the system, even when I disagree or don't have all the facts, I respect how it works. Since you grouped me in with Trumpers, I guess I'm in good company, right. Oh, my bad. Some of them decided to riot at the Capitol, trespass, and vandalize. That's right, I wasn't there any condemned them. But hey, I'm a Trumper, right?

[Zeus_66]

There are two kinds of people in this world; cynics and critics. I am a cynic. You are a critic. You know what the difference between the two are? Critics like you see the world for how it should be. Cynics like me see it for what it is. Stop being a consumed SJW sheeple pawn. The wolves have their claws in you, but you don't realize it until it's too late. And this sheepdog ain't coming to protect you, because you did it to yourself.

Liberalism is a mental disorder. Seek treatment soonest.

[Kjoseph66]

@hIopinionated_ 97% of are not sexist

[Sarahr123]

White women don’t deserve it. The male chauvinism and misogyny you refer to is what I would die for. I wish more men were like that. Asian women love it. I love alpha males. A man should behave like a man and a woman should behave like a woman.

[KrakenAttackin]

@hIopinionated_ You are seriously damaged goods.

[Zeus_66]

@Sarahr123: Spent extensive time throughout East and Southeast Asia. I know exactly what you're saying, and have seen with my eyes poor treatment of women. But you are so right right, especially within your culture. Asian women deserve to be treated with respect. Obviously, all women do. But Asian women have to deal with a lot of things. And all Asian women want is to be loved.

Stay safe.

[hIopinionated_]

@KrakenAttackin Shut up and go finish getting pumped trashcan

[Zeus_66]

Another solid response from @hlopinionated. "Shut up, trashcan!" Hahaha! What a joke.

[hIopinionated_]

@Zeus_66 Why don’t you mind your business and focus on your twin sexist lover k

[Zeus_66]

Considering this is my thread, it's my business, my triggered little white, liberal, affluent, leftist freak.

[hIopinionated_]

It may be your thread but I was talking to the other sexist pos. He or she shouldn’t have tagged me

[Foxeyes]

Please stop insulting eachother this conco is going nowhere

[Zeus_66]

And yet no rebuttal to me calling out your demographics. Amazing.

Seriously, how does it feel to know that you are the weak? The consumed? The Karen? The one that advocates for black and brown babies to be aborted at rates 10 fold compared to other demographics? How do you feel about your warmongering hypocritical mindset in Ukraine, all the while supplying white supremacists with billions in cash, weapons and ammo? Biden loves telling our military it is filled with "white supremacy," but then takes your tax dollars and gives them to the Azov's. Feels good to be that ignorant, but arrogant, eh?

[Zeus_66]

@Foxeyes: You read the thread. I offered respectful dialogue and offered peace. I also offered to bring this offline. She deserves what she gets. She needs to learn. Unfortunately she won't. So the battle continues.

[hIopinionated_]

How does it feel to know a pos like you and mostly everything you waste your time texting to me gets ignored? Waste someone else’s time dimwit

[Foxeyes]

Sure hon it's your own energy you are wasting here

[Zeus_66]

Of course it falls on deaf ears such as yours. You're a consumed sheeple pawn.

That said, that isn't true. You do read and respond. You are so triggered, you can't help it. Now your responses are at the weakest they can get. Keep trying though. It's fun watching you fumble around and flounder as your ship sinks.

[hIopinionated_]

@Foxeyes my apologies but I was done with this entire thread, was ignoring people and everything then a tard decided to tag me with useless insults

[Zeus_66]

@Foxeyes is correct. This is over.

Thanks for being a good ref.

[hIopinionated_]

@Zeus_66 No tard. I literally mean I don’t read your entire texts, probably like the first few sentences. Been doing that for a while actually

[Zeus_66]

Oh! More petty insults that actually hurt other people's feelings. And just when we think you can't get any lower...

You're lying. You read every word. Your responses prove it either going on a tirade after something I wrote later in a thread, or through lack of response because you got schooled and have nothing to say, except throw cheap insults.

But okay, that's cool. No go make me a sandwich.

[hIopinionated_]

It’s actually quite funny. According to you because I wasn’t reading your entire message, I’m dumb or whatever you called me lol. But believe whatever you like, I really don’t care

[Zeus_66]

And here we go again. Putting more words in my mouth I never said. Never called you dumb. However, if you read through your vial responses, you'll see just how vicious you are:

Tard, PoS, stupid, trashcan, pee brain, sexist, etc. It just comes out of your mouth with such a natural flow. People who have nothing left in the tank like you always resort to cheap shots and denial.

I've asked before, and I'll ask again. Hell, we even have other people asking... Please take this to private conversation with me or don't respond.

[hIopinionated_]

I said “or whatever you called me”

[Zeus_66]

I didn't call you any name. I identified traits that you didn't deny: white, somewhat affluent, elitist, leftist, SJW, feminist, puppet.

[hIopinionated_]

I know what I saw. But like I said, I didn’t see everything you wrote because I wasn’t reading everything you were saying

[Zeus_66]

You did. And at a minimum, you just saw everything in my post before this. And still no denial.

#truthsucks

[hIopinionated_]

I mean it may be there but I didn’t read it so I can’t confirm nor deny

[Zeus_66]

Thanks for confirming.

[hIopinionated_]

Looks like we can add delusional to the list as well

[Zeus_66]

Finally you say something we can all agree upon. You ma'am are indeed, delusional.

[Zeus_66]

Added you as a friend. Hit me up.

[hIopinionated_]

Of things you are not me 🙄

[hIopinionated_]

Honestly you are weirdest guy I ever met.

[Zeus_66]

Add me. You'll be surprised.

[hIopinionated_]

Why so you can ask me sexual questions?

[Zeus_66]

We've never met and there is nothing weird about me at all. Social liberal, fiscal conservative. Live however as long as it doesn't infringe upon me or anybody else and vice versa. Expect to hold my elected officials accountable for how they spend our money. That's weird?

[hIopinionated_]

Now that paragraph, I actually read

And that wasn’t what I referring to😐

[Zeus_66]

Sexual questions? What are you talking about? I don't go and directly do that to people. I may ask or answer those questions on here from time to time. But I certainly don't proposition girls.

[hIopinionated_]

See, weird. You actually seem sort of normal

[Zeus_66]

I am normal. So please add me so we can chat outside this platform.

[hIopinionated_]

Fine but only because I ignored many of your messages and most likely missed the message when you said you were being nice or respectful or something.

[7barbieringz]

@hIopinionated_ I said the same thing the other day! Women don't really need men anymore, they're more of a burden than anything.

We can work, and take care of ourselves without them, and if we won't kids we can just go to a sperm bank aha. Getting married/relationship just inst beneficial for the modern woman

[hIopinionated_]

Exactly. There have also been studies done insisting women are happier and have a longer lifespan when unmarried and no kids. Makes sense to me

[7barbieringz]

It definitely does. Women are told that we're literally nothing but baby making maids. And most men really expect that. When women aren't bogged down by the patriarchy (or a society designed for men alone) it just makes sense they'd be happier.

Funny how roe v Wade got overturned as women started figuring that out

[hIopinionated_]

I find it maddening that after a drastic turn in history women realize how serious things are. We should have been known. Should have been preparing. History literally taught us this moment.

I’m definitely annoyed at women, as I always am but I always been on our side informing women. All those independent party or anti Biden women who gave Republicans the power to even do this should feel like the idiots they are

[Kjoseph66]

so does that make women useless because I could just just get some eggs from a woman and use a artificial womb

[Agape93]

I expect them to drink it

[OlderAndWiser]

If I buy a drink for a lady, I expect that she is not in a relationship and willing to engage in conversation - at least for a few minutes - to see if we might have some common interests, and if we do, I am hopeful that she will give me her phone number.

[razelove]

To keep the conversation rolling. I very rarely buy anything for women who are strangers. If it's a meal or a drink, it's because we've already built some rapport. More than likely I'm going to offer to cover a round while we're shooting the shit, maybe some games of pool or something, and ask her to get the next round just on principle.

[Crafteroon]

I don't buy drinks. But if I did, I would expect them to at least taste it.

Yeah, buying for anything feels weird when trying to get to know someone. If I'm on a date that I asked them to, or at the bar that I asked them to go to, paying for some or all of the dining makes sense, since it's an event I asked to happen.

Paying for a drink on first meeting feels to me that I'm not confident in letting my personality give a good impression. That I'm paying for them to hear my icebreaker.

[globetrotter22]

I voted A but I should of voted B.

I don’t nor never have “expected sex” for just buying a girl a drink. However she should give me the respect of a having a conversation to get me know me better and vice versa. If you can’t do that you are selfish disrespectful pos (either gender because girls sometimes buy drinks for guys too).

Also those 9 guys who voted C (expecting sex) are idiots. Now if it’s a full all-expenses paid high end date (including dinner) there might be a argument to be made there. In that scenario calling a guy who does that “just a friend” is absolute bs out of the question. Some women really do think they can get away with friendzoning a guy in that scenario. But if you are just buying someone a drink c’mon.

[libsaretards]

Most of the time it is just a kind gesture. When I was in the military and would go to bars, I would pick 2-3 random girls and tell the bartender to give them 2 more of whatever they were drinking, but do not tell the girls who did it.

Occasionally I would find a girl I wanted to chat with. I would not expect anything to go too far (typically if it seemed like it would I would stop things in their tracks) or too fast. Sometimes I just wanted female company and to hear a woman's voice as she laughs and talks.

[Kaneki05]

If one bought an attractive girl a drink everytime just to speak to them they would be out of money within one night. So for sure not that.
I only buy someone a drink if there is a mutual understanding of you will get the next one or I am getting something for it.
Because it should be give and give not take and take.

[DaveJord]

So personally as a guy, I don't buy girls drinks out of kindliness. I do it express a interest and hope maybe to get a conversation going and see where it goes. But I don't ever just buy her a drink, I ask her if she would like me to buy her a drink.

If she says yes then I sit down and start a conversation, if she says no then I apologize for bothering her and I move on. So this, "I just am doing out of kindliness" is suspect to me.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

I buy people drinks because I feel like it, and because I'm enjoying their company and want to keep that positive energy flowing. I'm no simp but I'm not a miser either. Kf I'm enjoying a girl's company then why wouldn't I want to get her a drink? It's not like she owes me a fuck coz I bought her some alcoholic liquid in a cup. I just do it coz that's the sort of person I am.

[NoUsernameSelected]

I only will buy anyone a drink if they are my friend.

If you are a girl I'm interested in I expect interest in me, until you are my girlfriend I will not spend money on you. I only give the girlfriend treatment to a girlfriend, not to a stranger.

[Anonymous]

I've never, and likely Will never, buy someone a drink from across a bar. Although if I ever did it would simply be a kind gesture and an invitation to talk/flirt.

Guys who expect sex deserve to be slapped by the girl and thrown out by the guys.

[bamesjond0069]

In todays day, no man should ever buy a drink for a girl. Fastest way to get them to disrespect you and run off and if you try to talk to them have them say its harassment. Id highly suggest telling a woman to buy you a drink and if the conversation is good you will get the next round. Their turn to be put on the spot. If you're not hot enough to pull this off... talk to them a bit first and make sure they are receptive before buying them a drink.

[crmoore]

I've yet to do that but if I did I'd simply expect her to consider talking with me. And not in a "she MUST consider it" type of way, I just mean that'd be the natural response. If she doesn't want to, that's fine. I took the risk of spending money on a stranger and she has no obligation to indulge in me.

[SlothySlob]

As in, we're on a date and I buy the drinks? Or as in "I just met you, I find you hot, let me buy you a drink"?

[Foxeyes]

It's you answer you choose 😉

[SlothySlob]

Well, since I'm socially inept this doesn't really happen to me, so I have no idea.
I went out drinking with some of my friends some times and I bought the drinks. I guess you could argue I was buying their continued friendship.
When it comes to lovie dovie dating, I prefer planning shit out with some leeway if either of us would rather a burger instead of a stake dinner. The whole pazaz of after which date we have to fuck, I dunno, when it feels right.

[Foxeyes]

Thabk you for answering 😌 great answer

[SlothySlob]

Oh, come on. It surely isn't.

[Foxeyes]

It's an honest answer that's great

[SlothySlob]

Guess I have at least one thing going for me.

[DenizLikesTennis]

Whether it is buying a drink or any other nice and kind gestures, when I do, then it comes within (genuinely). I don't expect anything at all.

However, I expect that this person can change his/her mind regardless, in other words reject the offer. You should never take it personally.

[Ghostluck]

I have never bought a random stranger a drink. Now, if I meet a woman in a bar and we hit it off and there is some obvious interest in one another, only then will I offer to buy a drink. Otherwise, buy your own damn drink, or find some scrub to buy one for you.

[Levin]

If I buy you a drink chu better be going to bed with me.

[Foxeyes]

So demanding

[Levin]

Well, that's like 5 hard earned British pounds I'd be spending.

ain't nothing free in life, girl.

[Foxeyes]

Not like we should compare the worth of a drink to going to bed with someone but that's ridiculous

[Levin]

I don't make the rules.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Levin. True enough.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Foxeyes. It all comes down to how hot the guy is.

[Foxeyes]

Should it be? It's just a drink it's not that much...

[KrakenAttackin]

@Foxeyes. Just a drink? I think only simps buy women drinks.

[Smashingdoozy]

If I'm buying a stranger a drink I just want to make them smile or make their day. If they wanna have a conversation then that's cool but not necessary.

[Still-alive]

based

[goaded]

Conversation. Getting bought a drink and then just ignoring that person would be very rude.

That's assuming you'd asked them if you can buy them a drink, sending one to someone's table and expecting something in return is also rude.

[ChrisMaster69]

Nothing, other than usually they get them in when it’s their round.

if for example 2 couples go out to pub, then you just go round the table getting drinks.

[TDDMS]

At least she can have the common courtesy to be on her knees with her mouth open. Sheesz!!!

[Foxeyes]

really? its only a drink

[On_cloud_wine]

I let this guy buy me a drink at a club once and my friend got so mad at me because they kept following us all around.

[On_cloud_wine]

So I suppose they expected attention and a dance and ugh.. I’ll be careful next time.

[20yearsolder]

I don't expect anything from them, hopefully I can have some conversation but other than that there's nothing I expect from them

[hIopinionated_]

I know what men expect when buying a woman a drink


Trust me boys, we’re better off without your nice guy act

[andreasderjuengere]

I expect them to fall on their knees, kiss my feet and follow me closely for the rest of the evening.
Expecting this - I don't buy drinks for strangers.

[__MisterGoneShiner__]

A little chat, a little drink, a little flirt.
If she's not taken, maybe a one night stand.
Or just be friends with benefits. I dont know

[TheMajesticKing777]

Personally I wouldn't, I don't buy people drinks but normally when I buy people stuff in general, it's gifted to them and I expect nothing in return

[bubblegunnn]

doesn't expect anything just bein kind, i just wanna buy them back cuz they were buy me drink

[Stoner710]

Mainly a conversation if it more comes out of it great if it doesn’t least I had a fun time talking to her

[Alex8736]

If I'm out I'll usually buy whomever I'm with whether it's coworkers, friends etc I'll always be the one to buy the 1st round of drinks and with my work/life schedule if something suddenly comes up and I have to leave I won't have that guilty conscience hovering over me feeling like I chewed and screwed 😁

[annabananna]

If I buy someone a drink I would just hope they enjoy the drink. I never bought a stranger a drink. Usually a friend and I don’t really think about expecting anything.

[wowop99266]

You buy you're own drink, I'm at the bar for myself.

[Foxeyes]

Not buying your lady a drink?

[wowop99266]

If I just met you no. Now if we're there together and it's a celebratory occasion of course I'll buy you a drink.

[Foxeyes]

Fair enough I get that

[KrakenAttackin]

I asked a similar question a while back, asking "Ladies, why do you think men buy drinks for you"?

The delusion was strong as women pretend not to know men want to get them in bed.

[Subarugirl]

And it's delusional that a man thinks that a shitty 5 dollar drink will buy him sex. If he wanted to buy sex he should have hired a prostitute or a bought a bottle of lotion. The real issue here is when a man thinks that buying someone a drink entitles him to someone's body, he needs to adjust his expectations and stop buying gifts for strangers that didn't ask for it...

[KrakenAttackin]

@Subarugirl I agree completely, which is why a man should never buy a drink for a girl he isn't sleeping with. Problem solved!

[KrakenAttackin]

Also, when the fuck were drinks $5?

[Subarugirl]

I agree... problem solved.. I don't know a happy hour draft beer...

[Kjoseph66]

@Subarugirl so if a woman isn't willing to engage in sexual intercourse then she should not accept the drink

[OlderAndWiser]

@KrakenAttackin "Also, when the fuck were drinks $5?" Shortly after the Spanish-American War!

[KrakenAttackin]

@OlderAndWiser Exactly. This tells me @Subarugirl girl has never bought a drink for herself.

[Subarugirl]

@KrakenAttackin actually, I’ve never accepted an alcoholic beverage from anyone that I wasn’t dating apart from family members or good friends… so I don’t know what that little voice in your head is telling you but you may not want to believe everything that it tells you…

[KrakenAttackin]

@Subarugirl Yeah, the little voices in my head say all kinds of crazy shit...👹☠️🦖🤡

[dustybiker]

Don’t have expectations. Don’t get disappointed. An offer was just that.

[Freyke]

The night to continue. I do it if we have been talking for a bit already. A drink is never an opener.

[USLegionary]

When a woman accepts a drink she's opening herself up to at minimum a conversation.

[IJhonnyI]

I expect them too drink it til it's empty and give me a light conversation

[Sparkie460]

I haven't done this in a long time since I'm married. When I was single I bought ladies drinks as an ice breaker so I can talk to them. If I only get a thank you, I'm fine with that.

[athlete_7]

If its of opposite gender there are high chances to hit on them cuz u find em hot but if its same gender or buisness person it could be cuz ur tryna be nice.

[ArtemisSilver]

I'd at least like conversation for the time it takes her to enjoy the drink.

If there's chemistry great, if not, well no great loss.

[Agent_Elflord]

I’ve never been to a bar and bought someone a drink, but I think the furthest I’d expect was to talk for a few minutes and get to know them a little.

[Hairylegs222]

I've never done that. I wouldn't expect her to do anything, but I'd want her to sit near me and we have a nice conversation 🙂

[Still-alive]

i haven't done that before but if i did i suppose i'd want to talk to them.. but if they don't thats cool too.

[MysticDevice]

If on the extremely rare occasion I'd buy a girl a drink, a small, short, casual conversation is all Id expect. If we don't immediately find common ground then we go our separate ways. If we hit it off then we just see what happens.

[Anonymous]

I would never buy a woman a drink.
Women use men for free shit.

[Foxeyes]

Like men never use women 🙄

[Opinion Owner]

Irrelivant.

[Kaamraj]

I expect to open a conversation with a chance of going further. If you dont like me and do not wish to talk, then refuse the drink.

[Guy13]

I expect a martini worth of attention. I'm not worried about whether she will like me or the cost for next two rounds...

[bolverk]

A and maybe a little B, but only if you're willing.

[Anonymous]

When I buy a woman a drink, and she accepts, I think it's an unspoken agreement that she spend a little time talking with me. I don't expect anything more.

[truthisthree]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/QOu_MsjKp6s

[007kingifrit]

i expect conversation, and some kind of friendliness. i hope for sex

[OddBeMe]

Guys are targeting convos, but sometimes it doesn’t happen. Like tipping waiters, that’s society.

[constantine15]

I expect her to come home with me and to sleep with me

[zagor]

So a $10 whore...

[constantine15]

@zagor $10 is too much

[Chaser3232]

I’ve been married, I’m a widower now and just looking for a friendly conversation. So if I buy your Drink, I just expect open conversation.

[Anthony20108]

at least give me a moment of their time so we could perhaps chit chat.

[Stella188]

Just being kind. Or in my case on me. Being a bartender.

[Jltakk]

I've never bought someone a drink. They can afford it surely?

[Jude_Wills]

Depends if she my friend i will not expect anything.

I vote option B

[krin_m]

I would assume that when we are having a drink together, we are having a good time and be happy with it but if something more happens because we click, that is awesome! No expectations otherwise.

[IsoUser]

To be perfectly honest I am German/Irish = a hardhead that likes a good time so essentially just a good time with friends lol

[Anonymous]

Buying women drinks and food are for simps. We all know that same girl is going to take your drink and still go home and get fucked by Chad Thundercock at the end of the night.