Well, I don’t really expect much depending on the context. In this case, if it’s a woman that I fancy me buying a drink for her would be a gesture of kindness and affection. I would be hoping that by me buying her a drink, it would be received positively by her and may open other avenues of conversation or feelings towards me that would otherwise be closed. Now, I’ve never bought a woman a drink for this purpose ever in my life, but I’m saying if I did then it would be because I fancied a woman and wanted to get on her good side.
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In this day and age, a guy is out of his mind to buy a girl a drink. Progressives want a society of feminine men because "masculinity is toxic." So women don't deserve a masculine guy.
Excluding my wife, mother, daughter, and close female friends of our family, I stopped holding doors for women about 6-7 years ago. I was at work and got called a chauvinist pig and a misogynist. No joke. So forget common courtesy and mannerisms. It just isn't worth it to do anything for women in general anymore.
@hIopinionated_ I said the same thing the other day! Women don't really need men anymore, they're more of a burden than anything.
We can work, and take care of ourselves without them, and if we won't kids we can just go to a sperm bank aha. Getting married/relationship just inst beneficial for the modern woman
I expect them to drink it
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If I buy a drink for a lady, I expect that she is not in a relationship and willing to engage in conversation - at least for a few minutes - to see if we might have some common interests, and if we do, I am hopeful that she will give me her phone number.
To keep the conversation rolling. I very rarely buy anything for women who are strangers. If it's a meal or a drink, it's because we've already built some rapport. More than likely I'm going to offer to cover a round while we're shooting the shit, maybe some games of pool or something, and ask her to get the next round just on principle.
I don't buy drinks. But if I did, I would expect them to at least taste it.
Yeah, buying for anything feels weird when trying to get to know someone. If I'm on a date that I asked them to, or at the bar that I asked them to go to, paying for some or all of the dining makes sense, since it's an event I asked to happen.
Paying for a drink on first meeting feels to me that I'm not confident in letting my personality give a good impression. That I'm paying for them to hear my icebreaker.I voted A but I should of voted B.
I don’t nor never have “expected sex” for just buying a girl a drink. However she should give me the respect of a having a conversation to get me know me better and vice versa. If you can’t do that you are selfish disrespectful pos (either gender because girls sometimes buy drinks for guys too).
Also those 9 guys who voted C (expecting sex) are idiots. Now if it’s a full all-expenses paid high end date (including dinner) there might be a argument to be made there. In that scenario calling a guy who does that “just a friend” is absolute bs out of the question. Some women really do think they can get away with friendzoning a guy in that scenario. But if you are just buying someone a drink c’mon.Most of the time it is just a kind gesture. When I was in the military and would go to bars, I would pick 2-3 random girls and tell the bartender to give them 2 more of whatever they were drinking, but do not tell the girls who did it.
Occasionally I would find a girl I wanted to chat with. I would not expect anything to go too far (typically if it seemed like it would I would stop things in their tracks) or too fast. Sometimes I just wanted female company and to hear a woman's voice as she laughs and talks.If one bought an attractive girl a drink everytime just to speak to them they would be out of money within one night. So for sure not that.
I only buy someone a drink if there is a mutual understanding of you will get the next one or I am getting something for it.
Because it should be give and give not take and take.So personally as a guy, I don't buy girls drinks out of kindliness. I do it express a interest and hope maybe to get a conversation going and see where it goes. But I don't ever just buy her a drink, I ask her if she would like me to buy her a drink.
If she says yes then I sit down and start a conversation, if she says no then I apologize for bothering her and I move on. So this, "I just am doing out of kindliness" is suspect to me.I buy people drinks because I feel like it, and because I'm enjoying their company and want to keep that positive energy flowing. I'm no simp but I'm not a miser either. Kf I'm enjoying a girl's company then why wouldn't I want to get her a drink? It's not like she owes me a fuck coz I bought her some alcoholic liquid in a cup. I just do it coz that's the sort of person I am.
I only will buy anyone a drink if they are my friend.
If you are a girl I'm interested in I expect interest in me, until you are my girlfriend I will not spend money on you. I only give the girlfriend treatment to a girlfriend, not to a stranger.I've never, and likely Will never, buy someone a drink from across a bar. Although if I ever did it would simply be a kind gesture and an invitation to talk/flirt.
Guys who expect sex deserve to be slapped by the girl and thrown out by the guys.In todays day, no man should ever buy a drink for a girl. Fastest way to get them to disrespect you and run off and if you try to talk to them have them say its harassment. Id highly suggest telling a woman to buy you a drink and if the conversation is good you will get the next round. Their turn to be put on the spot. If you're not hot enough to pull this off... talk to them a bit first and make sure they are receptive before buying them a drink.
I've yet to do that but if I did I'd simply expect her to consider talking with me. And not in a "she MUST consider it" type of way, I just mean that'd be the natural response. If she doesn't want to, that's fine. I took the risk of spending money on a stranger and she has no obligation to indulge in me.
As in, we're on a date and I buy the drinks? Or as in "I just met you, I find you hot, let me buy you a drink"?
Whether it is buying a drink or any other nice and kind gestures, when I do, then it comes within (genuinely). I don't expect anything at all.
However, I expect that this person can change his/her mind regardless, in other words reject the offer. You should never take it personally.
I have never bought a random stranger a drink. Now, if I meet a woman in a bar and we hit it off and there is some obvious interest in one another, only then will I offer to buy a drink. Otherwise, buy your own damn drink, or find some scrub to buy one for you.
If I buy you a drink chu better be going to bed with me.
If I'm buying a stranger a drink I just want to make them smile or make their day. If they wanna have a conversation then that's cool but not necessary.
Conversation. Getting bought a drink and then just ignoring that person would be very rude.
That's assuming you'd asked them if you can buy them a drink, sending one to someone's table and expecting something in return is also rude.
Nothing, other than usually they get them in when it’s their round.
if for example 2 couples go out to pub, then you just go round the table getting drinks.At least she can have the common courtesy to be on her knees with her mouth open. Sheesz!!!
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