When you buy someone a drink, what do you expect from them? (Page 2)
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I let this guy buy me a drink at a club once and my friend got so mad at me because they kept following us all around.
So I suppose they expected attention and a dance and ugh.. I’ll be careful next time.
I don't expect anything from them, hopefully I can have some conversation but other than that there's nothing I expect from them
I know what men expect when buying a woman a drink
Trust me boys, we’re better off without your nice guy act
I expect them to fall on their knees, kiss my feet and follow me closely for the rest of the evening.
Expecting this - I don't buy drinks for strangers.
A little chat, a little drink, a little flirt.
If she's not taken, maybe a one night stand.
Or just be friends with benefits. I dont know
Personally I wouldn't, I don't buy people drinks but normally when I buy people stuff in general, it's gifted to them and I expect nothing in return
doesn't expect anything just bein kind, i just wanna buy them back cuz they were buy me drink
Mainly a conversation if it more comes out of it great if it doesn’t least I had a fun time talking to her
If I'm out I'll usually buy whomever I'm with whether it's coworkers, friends etc I'll always be the one to buy the 1st round of drinks and with my work/life schedule if something suddenly comes up and I have to leave I won't have that guilty conscience hovering over me feeling like I chewed and screwed 😁
If I buy someone a drink I would just hope they enjoy the drink. I never bought a stranger a drink. Usually a friend and I don’t really think about expecting anything.
You buy you're own drink, I'm at the bar for myself.
Not buying your lady a drink?
If I just met you no. Now if we're there together and it's a celebratory occasion of course I'll buy you a drink.
Fair enough I get that
I asked a similar question a while back, asking "Ladies, why do you think men buy drinks for you"?
The delusion was strong as women pretend not to know men want to get them in bed.
And it's delusional that a man thinks that a shitty 5 dollar drink will buy him sex. If he wanted to buy sex he should have hired a prostitute or a bought a bottle of lotion. The real issue here is when a man thinks that buying someone a drink entitles him to someone's body, he needs to adjust his expectations and stop buying gifts for strangers that didn't ask for it...
@Subarugirl I agree completely, which is why a man should never buy a drink for a girl he isn't sleeping with. Problem solved!
Also, when the fuck were drinks $5?
I agree... problem solved.. I don't know a happy hour draft beer...
@Subarugirl so if a woman isn't willing to engage in sexual intercourse then she should not accept the drink
@KrakenAttackin "Also, when the fuck were drinks $5?" Shortly after the Spanish-American War!
@OlderAndWiser Exactly. This tells me @Subarugirl girl has never bought a drink for herself.
@KrakenAttackin actually, I’ve never accepted an alcoholic beverage from anyone that I wasn’t dating apart from family members or good friends… so I don’t know what that little voice in your head is telling you but you may not want to believe everything that it tells you…
@Subarugirl Yeah, the little voices in my head say all kinds of crazy shit...👹☠️🦖🤡
Don’t have expectations. Don’t get disappointed. An offer was just that.
The night to continue. I do it if we have been talking for a bit already. A drink is never an opener.
When a woman accepts a drink she's opening herself up to at minimum a conversation.
I expect them too drink it til it's empty and give me a light conversation
I haven't done this in a long time since I'm married. When I was single I bought ladies drinks as an ice breaker so I can talk to them. If I only get a thank you, I'm fine with that.
If its of opposite gender there are high chances to hit on them cuz u find em hot but if its same gender or buisness person it could be cuz ur tryna be nice.
I'd at least like conversation for the time it takes her to enjoy the drink.
If there's chemistry great, if not, well no great loss.
I've never done that. I wouldn't expect her to do anything, but I'd want her to sit near me and we have a nice conversation 🙂